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I think it's fair if a masseur only does certain things with guys he's attracted to. I mean they still have their own desires and likes. I'm pretty sure they find a client hot that that goes a long way with what you can get either as an upgrade or for $free.99.

That's exactly what I was thinking but I'm guessing lodging costs is what's the barrier for them.

No. People send money to each other on those apps all the time for a lot shadier reasons. I'm not important enough to worry about someone finding out I sent someone else a few bucks. Most of the guys I use request cash. Which is fine. I'm not forcing anyone to accept any particular type of payment. However, if electronic payments are okay, usually stated on their ad or contact, I'll go with that route. Maybe if I was getting more than just massage I'd be worried. Honestly, no one cares what men do with other men. It is usually just when females get involved that there are concerns. However, I'm not DL so there's that.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26502/ I searched and didn't see anything. There are only two reviews and they are from 2017. Any information would be appreciated. Thanks!

I wouldn't like that. Fortunately I haven't run across it yet. Maybe the people who legit want gift cards are trying to not have a money trail? Honestly I'd prefer to pay with cashapp or zelle. I only get cash because most guys are fine with it but honestly don't like carrying it around. I usually plan in advance so instead of rushing to an atm before I head their way I have the cash a day or hours before. Even though I usually go straight to from my place to theirs, I'd still rather skip that step.

Well some guys just look good, but are not good MTs. Some good MTs are not muscular or attractive (eye of the beholder). There's definitely a crop in LA, San Diego, and San Francisco that I wish were here based on hotness. But I do think the competition here could be better. Not as many muscular guys here so the more muscle ones stand out when they visit. And I don't think the other guys are pressed to look more athletic than they do. However muscles are not everyone's type so there's that. Clearly they are getting enough money to advertise their business so I take it as that it's working out for them. But they make me think an average guy like me would do ok massaging on the side if priced right.

Maverick at 190? I don't see me ever paying that at all. Lol he'd have to define what sensual means to him. Tim has definitely been putting in work in the gym.

I'm just going to bump this thread instead of making a new one as it's just an observation .... I was thinking that there was going to be an influx of visitors for the Super Bowl and there seems to be a few but I'm guessing with hotel prices being what they are, it's not worth it this week. Lol Maybe President's Day Weekend will be different lol

That's fine and dandy but keep your Rentmen rate there and your massage rate on the massage sites.

Pretty much. I have a monthly budget that I'm sticking too and I can get sex if that's all I wanted from someone. I workout, I legit need a massage on a regular basis. Can't really get a decent massage that stays a massage from a hook up app. lol

I see i'm not the only one who got shorted. At least he's consistent. But yeah... it was a good massage but I kinda feel like he's not aware of what 90 minutes actually entails. Like He wasn't rushing me out of the door at the end and it didn't feel rushed per se but the time did not add up to what we agreed on. One of the few times where I didn't tip and just gave the advert rate. It is odd because his RentMen reviews are so glowing and I was like" that's not the experience I got at all" but then I didn't hire him for that so maybe he likes providing those services more than massage. A shame because it was deep pressure which I really like.

Oh! And clip your finger and toe nails! Lol

I actually wish these types of guys would just go to rent men instead of trying to come off as a masseur. I'm not paying 250 for someone to top me. I'm not that unattractive or out of shape. There's plenty of free peen and booty in Atlanta. But.... I understand that other people may not be in my situation. What I don't get is that when these 'new guys' show up and have zero reviews, why are they priced so much beyond the average? You should be "on sale" under cutting the other guys until you've got your clientele up imo. He cute tho.

Ask what products they use. Massage oil? Baby oil? Lotion? Is it scented? Baby oil is super greasy and I'd definitely not like that used on me. Do they have pets and if so what type? will they be in the room? Does he have a roommate? What time range can you arrive so that you don't run into the last client on their way out? As for what you can do... I always text "omw" or "10 min eta" so they'll know to expect me soon. I definitely suggest making sure that you've not had anything to eat within 2.5 hours. If you're the type who has sinus issues you may want to hit the Afrin so that your nasal passages are clear. Lying down can cause mucus to shift. Also if your Deodorant tends to be super strong you may want to just use a lighter touch. Speaking of which, keep a stick or can in the car in case you do shower there so you can re up. Most guys prefer cash so if you think you'll want to tip make sure you bring enough. If you don't want to carry cash or don't have time to go to the atm, ask them if they roll the Square/Zelle/cash app instant deposit fee into the price. Some do, some don't.

Actually he's pretty good. But shorted me on time by 10 minutes twice after driving 30 minutes to get there well on time. He's nice though. I haven't booked in over 2 years and that was when I was not as vocal about my expectations. I'd actually book again. However there's other options that are physically closer to my location.

Yeah. I'm just using him as an example.

Via hastags. But AFAIK figuring out if they are local to you is the hard part. For example this guy [MEDIA=instagram]BrPT87wAax4[/MEDIA] I had already seen his profile here before https://rentmasseur.com/thejohnsmithy And that's just from the #massagetherapist hash tag. He used a lot of tags so you can see what he used and browse through the tags. But you can probably put LA or NYC in front of massage or massage therapist and widdle it down. .

I have not. But I have seen guys who are actually showing videos of their services in action, faces blurred and bodies covered of course. I'm okay with accepting IG as a new form of communication so eventually, it'll likely be a thing.

Proving that the search function functions.

If they have ads on the RentMasseur and MasseurFinder, I'd be more likely to book. There are also some who show up on RentMen but then I'm thinking they are going to be less massage and more extras which is not want I'm looking for. I think I'd actually book someone from Instragram before A4A again myself. There's a few that I've noticed were on MM4M before that went tits up or will pop up on RM for a month or two then vanish, then appear again. @BeefyDude I recall you're in ATL so since it was MLK weekend, there were probably a lot A4A 'pros' in town who were less about massage and more about extras. Which is fine depending on what one is looking for. Most of them come off as tops so even if I were looking for extras, as a verse guy, they really can't do anything for me but a massage and if that's not good...I don't need 'em. lol I can just say that if this was a job that I was making money on, I'd go ahead and pay the fees that the more pro sites. These guys just come off as too cheap to pay for it and it's hard for me to take them seriously because I don't think they take what they do seriously. They very well could but professional appearance matters a lot. Sure, they have muscles, low body fat, and think they can ride off of that on A4A but.. I'm really less likely to book someone with 'just' an A4A ad. Just call a thing a thing and get a RentMen ad if you're basically doing 10 minutes of lackluster rub and then it's bow chicka bow wow after that. At least there no ambiguity.

I went twice. It was pretty good. I would say if your main and backup guys are booked or you need a massage last minute, it's a decent option. I could have used more chest and quad work but I left happy. The table shower was kinda neat. I think I was 110 before tip for 90+table shower. And I agree. The tipping seemed a little heavy handed. I was going to anyway but that may turn people off. So either plan on spending at least 15% above the price or just have an awkward checkout experience.

This. If we're going to be physically close in a private setting where for me the whole point is to be in a more intimate place and have potential for a more intimate experience for us both, I don't want to feel like it's a chore for them. If this didn't matter I'd just go to Massage Envy and be done.

I'm black and don't live in LA but I'm interested in this and following for when I'm next in the area. When I contact POC, I never say anything about my race before showing up, however if it's a white guy I tend to let them know up front. This way no one's time is wasted. I'd hate to show up somewhere and the guy decides not to answer the door, look disappointed, or have a bad attitude.

You sound like you need a massage. ?

The 160+ range is high enough especially at incall, where on my budget I think you are good if I were not to tip. However I do tip all the time. I just feel like if you're in your own home and I'm paying you 160 already your tip expectations shouldn't be that much because your overhead is not that much. Obviously you've included that in your fee. I haven't spent over 200 out of pocket. Once because I wanted to tip more than I had cash and used my CC and tipped more than I would have because it wasn't instant money for them. If I were to drop over 200 for a massage I'm imagining we are entering into the full service zone and if that was the case I certainly didn't expect it nor request it so I'd take that as we would have just hit it off well and there was mutual attraction. I tend not to go to guys who are 200 for 90 minutes anyway. That to me reads more sensual than therapeutic and therapeutic is primary for me but I want sensual points as well. I am legitimately sore and need the massage when I am ready to book. I can easily hook up for free. Anyway, These guys can't have sex with all of their clients and from my understanding most actually don't and sex only happens rarely under the right aligned circumstances. Plus they probably don't want to have sex with everyone considering the range of ages, body types, personalities that they come across. Lol ?