Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!