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1 hour ago, poolboy48220 said:

During the massage, I don't, unless you count moaning when he goes somewhere I like 🙂 I'll discuss it before the massage starts, but to me, doing that during the massage would interrupt the flow.

Thanks! I feel the same.

4 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I ask at the beginning “are you happy for me to go anywhere? Head, feet and everything in between?”. The answer is usually “yes”. I’m aware some people specifically don’t like feet massage, or head massage so it’s good to check those. Occasionally clients say nothing internal but mostly they just say “it’s all fine”. So then I’ve the ok to go anywhere, including balls, hole, perineum etc.

You can read cues from how they react if you go somewhere they don’t like. It might be obvious as in touch their hole and their ass cheeks squeeze together implies they don’t want a finger inside! It might be you try something and the reaction is dynamite. I saw a client recently and during the foot massage I kissed his toe…he responded positively so I sucked it…and he went wild (in a nice way!). Great! Now I know what gets him going. 

I think if you pick a good masseur they’ll ask you the right questions and they’ll read your reactions to give you what you want. You shouldn’t need to give him a ‘shopping list’ because that removes any element of surprise. He should just know where you definitely don’t want to be touched because that’s important to respect. I’m guessing you just chose the wrong masseur, he doesn’t sound very professional. 
 

 

Thanks for letting me know how a professional masseur does it. I agree I didn’t get the right one.

Not sure if this has been discussed. I am wondering how you communicate with your masseur during a session. For example, when the masseur worked on my butt and I was almost aroused and expected him to brush some of my sweet spots (e.g. taint and balls). I thought those areas should be included in a sensual massage, but it turned out he completely left those areas out. Should I tell the masseur where and how I'd like to be touched? I always feel very embarrassed to say something like that.

Good luck. Keep me posted if you find any good one. I found the market is two extremes - the ones with skills wouldn’t do anything sensual or erotic; the ones with skills and offer something erotic won’t work on you seriously as soon as they know you are there not just for therapeutic massage.

Sorry I didn’t find one that I like with great massage skills and sensual elements.

Tried bi Mike. If you want deep tissue, he’s not your guy.

I’ve paid $160-180 before but still couldn’t find a good one. In that case, I’d rather stick with a legitimate masseur. Thanks for confirming. At least I won’t think about it anymore.

I have searched the board but couldn't find what I am looking for. I expect:

• Great deep tissue massage skills that can address my muscle issues (LMT/CMT preferred, but I know some LMTs are worse than some masseurs without credential)
• Sensual elements, like body electric - type of erotic touch. (MT/HE preferred but is absolutely optional)
• Below $100/hour preferred, but no more than $120.

I reached out to a few masseurs, and some presented me their service menu. If I request sensual option, the price can get really steep plus they don't expect to massage me seriously. I learned my lessons in a hard way, so don't want to dump $$ like that anymore. 

Do you think such masseurs exist? If you know anyone fits my criteria, could you please PM? Thanks!

I'm interested too. Anyone has recent experience? I saw he has a website now. His rate is high for therapeutic massage.

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https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/13275/

Any member has seen him? Could you pm me? Thanks!

Thanks!

Guys, I know it’s a long shot. Thanks!

BTW, how did this 10-year-old post come up again?

Thanks for your reply. Very good to know!

Has anyone used https://rentmasseur.com/Xcesivrob? Could you PM me how your experience was? Thanks!

@bencleve29, Is Deon purely therapeutic? Could you PM me? Thanks!

I found the description on his website (http://www.floydstouch.com/) and also the guest form are very interesting. Have someone tried his massage? Can you please PM me? Thanks!

Thanks a lot for your reply. It is very helpful!

I know there has been couple of threads on the board about SD, but I don't think my questions have been addressed.

1. From the Internet, I learned the crimes are rampant there. Will I be safe if I take pictures with my iPhone on the street while touring some places of attraction? (I assume no?)

2. Does anyone have masseurs to recommend? I am looking for real massages with some sensual elements. Is it best to do in-calls or out-calls? Given the safety concern, I'm kinda worried about out-calls (to my hotel room)...I saw Apollo Sauna offers massage service. Does anyone know if it is good?

3. Would it be a bad idea to hire a private tour guide/driver there? I am traveling alone. I am worried if I didn't hire the right person, I might become the target of the tour guide. Am I overreacting?

4. Is it okay to wear speedo on the beach? Or it has to be board shorts? How safe is it on the beach? I read some reports that people got robbed on beach as well.

5. Given my worries, will Punta Cana (instead of SD) be a better destination for me?

6. I don't speak Spanish at all. That's why I am so cautious in making plans. I am also thinking if I should go to another Caribbean country instead of DR. Do you have some recommendations?

Thanks a lot!

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Anyone tried Rick?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/massagevirtuoso.shtml

http://paradisemassage.info/

If there's a concern for you to reply directly on the board, can you PM me? Thanks!

Guys, how do you like your scrotum to be teased?