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allyouknow

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  1. I feel like masseurs who advertise under the Relax section with shirtless pictures are deceiving. After all there is a "Heal" section. Just a thought.

    I've seen him advertise with nudes, and then they were gone, as sensual, then not sensual so I am with you ; If you are advertising with a pic that shows your naked ass, your pubic hair with pants open, then I am confused.

  2. Oaktown, unless I misunderstand your question, I was trying to say that while there is overwhelming evidence not book an appointment with Cam, there is something about him and the way he describes his services that calls to me. However, unless someone presents a strong reason to change my mind, I won't be giving him a call. But, illogically I grant you, if money were not an object at this point, I'd probably go just to see for myself. Hope this makes sense in answer to your question.

     

    I do believe that many on here, as I have come to understand, would rather not openly bash or outline specifics so as to not create a hate- board of commentary. Read between the lines?

  3. Many Russian masseurs are hot/athletic, straight, and pretty smart dudes who like the money they can make this way. Being smart and strong allows them to become very good masseurs pretty quickly. Being hot is a great hook in the lucrative m4m market, especially if one is comfortable being naked, which most (not all!) of these guys are. Many will even allow the client to touch them but a big no-no is them touching a dude in certain areas, I guess this crosses their line. Some will even invite the client to "finish himself" in the end, which I find demeaning and offensive, but to them this is the definition of the "sensual" massage, as more would turn it into "erotic" I guess.

     

    I actually don't want a HE from a dude who doesn't really want to do it or if it turns out I am not into him, that's why I never negotiate anything sensual upfront, I prefer to leave that to the chemistry and whatever happens - happens. But the massage itself is really important to me, and what typically frustrates me about these guys is their reluctance to deal with my glutes and hip flexors, which are really important to me. I guess they are too nervous about going there, especially if it sends a "wrong message" about what to expect later. Over time, I have learned to expect this and hence avoid Russians and Eastern Europeans who charge $100 an hour.

     

    At $150-$160, which typically takes me to over $200 for 90 minutes, you get three kinds. One is very playful and sensual but lack in massage skills. The second are truly competent masseurs who actually like and appreciate the male body and are open to some play in the end. And the third are just frauds, which is one of the reasons this forum is so valuable!

    so who are these "second" group of therapists that appreciate the male body and are open to play? Cause I agree with your post...and have been disappointed by a 160 massage that is neither sensual nor a massage - just a chance to see a naked sexy man, which I can do elsewhere.

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