I tried Cam quite a few months months ago, before I knew about this forum. I was beguiled by his pictures and the openness and warmth of the personal statements that accompanied his ads. The actual experience was the opppsite: indifferent, distant, distracted, almost sad ... I left feeling sorry I bothered him and a bit embarrassed by the eagerness I had brought to the appointment. I discovered this site whilst looking for reviews of Cam, trying to figure out what I had missed.
For decades, I have had regular masseurs, often for many years, which have been rewarding on many levels. It's been several years since I've had a regular. Prices are high and aptitude seems scarce.