jake1973

I think if you're seeing more/coarser hair it could also be because your body changes as you age. I wonder if beard softener works on other places. Hair wouldn't bother me so much if it was soft.

Wondering about New Orleans, it's been a long time since I was there but the dancers were regularly nude on the bar in multiple places (Corner Pocket, Bourbon Pub and Lafitte's off the top of my head). Have they put a stop to that?

I went once, on a Sunday. It was fun, not really crowded but I did not mind. Dancers were friendly without being too pushy. I would go more but it is a long ride for me.

How long has it been that dancers can't be nude? Didn't use to be the case.

Once place that I danced wanted us shaved including the legs. I hated that! If it felt nice for a day (debatable) it was miserable when it grew back. I challenged it and trimmed close and got away with it. This was a long time ago. I still like to trim close all over. That reminds me I want to do my chest.

Had a fun scene with a buddy yesterday, he drew some pics of me in some new gear I got in between edging me for a long time before I finally got off after 3 hours!

My scenes have been more casual and usually did not lead to sex. I did casual "houseboy" work for a gay couple years ago and would waiter at their parties in little sport briefs and stuff, do odd jobs for them naked while they went about their weekend routines. Also had an artist friend who would sketch me when he felt inspired, otherwise we would just be hanging out. Now I see a guy, also an artist, who is a little more assertive, helps himself to a feel, gets me hard, etc.

Yea it really depends, maybe on each's motive for being there and their attraction to one another.

I've seen them, I like the regular shoots better where the cameraman has free reign to "adjust" as needed. I like the older ones where Bill would wander onto the set, give the model a little stroke or goose him a bit, just cos he could.

I was at both of these clubs a few years ago and had a good time. Apart from the novelty (for me) of nude guys on stage there wasn't really anything raunchy happening. There seemed to be a number of straight couples there, for one thing.

Wondering if anybody here enjoys CMNM scenes (Basically where one guy gets naked while the other(s) stay dressed). Always been a favorite of mine although I'm not into giving or getting humiliation, BDSM etc. which I know a lot of guys conflate with this scene. I like something more laid back, where the naked guy is admired and affirmed. I'd post photo examples but I'm not sure what the rules are. I dig clips of photo shoots etc. where the naked guy is subject to businesslike touching and "arranging" or casual strokes.

I'm confused (again) I didn't think this place was gay anymore... I read it closed and was called BPM now.

So if it's not at Paddles is it the one in White Plains? Confused. Thanks.

New here, would like to make buds for one of these adventures.