I'd love to hear ideas on avoiding hiring a guy who is a dud. By dud, I mean someone who doesn't do what he says he'll do in his profile, or just generally isn't very good at his job. recently met with a guy with 10 five star reviews on RM. We messaged back and forth and he seemed energetic and engaging. when I got there, he had no personality, didn't kiss (he promised otherwise), and generally didn't seem to know what to do.