Capitano
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Capitano reacted to FLJock in Sam visiting SF
How does one have an erotic massage without MT or HE? 😕
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Capitano reacted to Mmmen in Sam visiting SF
Oy. I bit the big one and he’s handsome but the massage was B- and erotic massage with out MT or HE. Claimed the next client was there already. He is pretty but disappointing
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Capitano reacted to + dctraveler in 411 of Sethforu
His lone client review on his profile does not sound too encouraging at all. At least he is genuine enough to let it be posted, unlike many RM providers that hide negative reviews at all costs.
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Capitano reacted to BigNoiseDallas in Drew in Tampa
No, I wouldn't. For those of us who live in metropolitan areas, there are other providers who meet the hot/sexy/touchy-feely masseur criteria and NOT be a hot Christian conservative who is MAGA. I'm not handing my hard-earned money to someone who supports a "party" who wants to take away some hard-earned rights.
I got the joke, BTW -- you should have added a Ford F-150 or F-250, LOL.
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Capitano got a reaction from Medin in Have you ever trusted your gut and been right?
Caution here too!
This forum is becoming influential, which is great news, but the downside is that it's attracting scammers and "influencers." Always consider the source and his reputation. If you see a new profile praising a masseur or an older profile habitually praising masseurs that get negative reviews from others, that is actually a bad sign.
I recently blocked a recent profile that recommended a scammer that I regretted hiring. I should have checked his activity and reputation, things are pretty obvious in retrospect.
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Capitano got a reaction from Medin in Have you ever trusted your gut and been right?
Reviews on RM and MF tend to be useless garbage. Yeah, there are some honest ones but fake ones prevail IMHO.
Reasons to be extra careful: (1) too many rave reviews obviously written by the same person, especially if the profile is recent and (2) profiles that have been around for a long time and have no reviews.
As far as new profiles, they could be a better bet if they are genuinely new, but there's always the risk of them really being old, just under a new name, and these are toxic. It's always a good idea to ask this forum whether someone recognizes them, but you may not be alerted on time.
Also, avoiding new guys who charge a lot, especially if their pix reveal modeling aspirations, is a good idea. These are the most important "use your big head" situations. 😅
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Capitano reacted to starman05 in Hunkmasseurrr in Tampa
Thank god for this site. I need to mail in a cash donation
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Capitano reacted to + MakeMeCowboy in Hunkmasseurrr in Tampa
I saw him several years ago... no skills... everything is an upcharge... on and on. I paid him and asked him to leave. Hustler... IMHO
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Capitano got a reaction from mcskill in 411 on Andrew NYC
Back to the topic, Andrew is one of my favorites, and I don't really care whether he is gay, straight, or bi. Competent masseur who gets naked without me having to induce him, ok sensuality (I almost always want more attention to my glutes), reasonable MT allowed, plus generally a very nice and pleasant person. His English is very good too. I also appreciate that he kept his rate under $200 till recently, a sign of a serious provider who values and wants repeat clients, not a "grab the money and run" type.
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Capitano got a reaction from Midtownm4m in 411 on Andrew NYC
Back to the topic, Andrew is one of my favorites, and I don't really care whether he is gay, straight, or bi. Competent masseur who gets naked without me having to induce him, ok sensuality (I almost always want more attention to my glutes), reasonable MT allowed, plus generally a very nice and pleasant person. His English is very good too. I also appreciate that he kept his rate under $200 till recently, a sign of a serious provider who values and wants repeat clients, not a "grab the money and run" type.
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Capitano got a reaction from d.anders in 411 on Andrew NYC
Back to the topic, Andrew is one of my favorites, and I don't really care whether he is gay, straight, or bi. Competent masseur who gets naked without me having to induce him, ok sensuality (I almost always want more attention to my glutes), reasonable MT allowed, plus generally a very nice and pleasant person. His English is very good too. I also appreciate that he kept his rate under $200 till recently, a sign of a serious provider who values and wants repeat clients, not a "grab the money and run" type.
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Capitano got a reaction from LAboy in ZaynHands
I totally get it and it is of course legit to be into a certain "dominant type."
I personally interpret "dominant" as "asshole who doesn't give a shit about what the client wants and will do what HE wants, period.". 😉
So, needless to say, I stay away as soon as I see "dominant" in an ad or review.
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Capitano got a reaction from Rand in 411 on Andrew NYC
To me his argument was that the look was more mainstream and acceptable to gay and straight men alike than the previous comments suggested. A legitimate point of view, one can agree or disagree, and I didn't detect any suggestion that Men's Warehouse was a fancy brand, just that it's mainstream and omnipresent, which seems like an obvious fact to me.
BTW I find that "arguments" "I am this, I am that, me, me, me" hurt one's credibility. Those that have good points to make typically don't resort to "proof by intimidation."
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Capitano got a reaction from spacecowboy in Mikerobert, currently in DC (maybe Tampa-based?)
He mentioned having a job that requires discretion, that may explain his reluctance to send face pix. I never ask so it wasn't an issue.
As far as his skills, I didn't think he got no training. He offers to bring his table to outcalls, maybe he goes into the play mode if he senses that the client wants it? Or if he gets really horny? 😂
As far as the body, definitely not like that pic, but a good looking mature man. Shaved head when I saw him. The pic could still be him but at a much younger age.
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Capitano got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Providers not responding to inquiries
I echo this. If you have specific questions, but definitely not more than 3, ask them. People are busy and trying to get new business while possibly doing the actual work at the same time. The more your questions suggest that they can quickly close the deal with a desirable client, the likelier their response. I don't remember having any non-responders over the last year or two.
Also, I think that many masseurs cannot or don't want to schedule more than a day in advance. There are of course exceptions, and I honestly avoid them, I cannot commit to a massage 3 days from now 🤣.
On a side & related note, I hate open-ended questions here as well. Once in a while, I get messages asking me to "describe in more detail my experience" with masseur XYZ about which I commented in the forum. First, I often don't remember the details because it was typically long time ago. Second, I fucking say in the forum what I think is relevant. I can try to answer specific questions if I remember (e.g., how tall he was, how was his English, was his dick really big, etc.), but don't ask me to jog my memory and write an open-ended essay just for you, LOL. Third, it's really annoying when such an obnoxious and pretentious request comes from someone who hasn't contributed anything useful to the forum.
Masseurs don't know us. I wouldn't be surprised if they block potential clients that seem like too much work. Just like I block some members here. Nothing personal, it's just that we all have limited time and energy.
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Capitano got a reaction from Otterlybelievable in 411 on Andrew NYC
To me his argument was that the look was more mainstream and acceptable to gay and straight men alike than the previous comments suggested. A legitimate point of view, one can agree or disagree, and I didn't detect any suggestion that Men's Warehouse was a fancy brand, just that it's mainstream and omnipresent, which seems like an obvious fact to me.
BTW I find that "arguments" "I am this, I am that, me, me, me" hurt one's credibility. Those that have good points to make typically don't resort to "proof by intimidation."
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Capitano got a reaction from mcskill in 411 on Andrew NYC
To me his argument was that the look was more mainstream and acceptable to gay and straight men alike than the previous comments suggested. A legitimate point of view, one can agree or disagree, and I didn't detect any suggestion that Men's Warehouse was a fancy brand, just that it's mainstream and omnipresent, which seems like an obvious fact to me.
BTW I find that "arguments" "I am this, I am that, me, me, me" hurt one's credibility. Those that have good points to make typically don't resort to "proof by intimidation."
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Capitano got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Providers not responding to inquiries
I echo this. If you have specific questions, but definitely not more than 3, ask them. People are busy and trying to get new business while possibly doing the actual work at the same time. The more your questions suggest that they can quickly close the deal with a desirable client, the likelier their response. I don't remember having any non-responders over the last year or two.
Also, I think that many masseurs cannot or don't want to schedule more than a day in advance. There are of course exceptions, and I honestly avoid them, I cannot commit to a massage 3 days from now 🤣.
On a side & related note, I hate open-ended questions here as well. Once in a while, I get messages asking me to "describe in more detail my experience" with masseur XYZ about which I commented in the forum. First, I often don't remember the details because it was typically long time ago. Second, I fucking say in the forum what I think is relevant. I can try to answer specific questions if I remember (e.g., how tall he was, how was his English, was his dick really big, etc.), but don't ask me to jog my memory and write an open-ended essay just for you, LOL. Third, it's really annoying when such an obnoxious and pretentious request comes from someone who hasn't contributed anything useful to the forum.
Masseurs don't know us. I wouldn't be surprised if they block potential clients that seem like too much work. Just like I block some members here. Nothing personal, it's just that we all have limited time and energy.
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Capitano reacted to d.anders in Providers not responding to inquiries
This is a hit-or-miss business. Very few of these guys are legit, so they don't treat the customer in a professional manner. It's not a realistic expectation. Most of these guys want instant appointments (cash). They don't want to answer questions, or have anything to do with what they call "time wasters." For many, it's just another version of rentmen.com.
I always ask questions, but many don't respond. I've learned to move on quickly. I've learned not to fall in love with a photograph. I'm willing to pay for good service, but good service is difficult to find, sometimes. When you find it, it's a good thing to keep. But it is a needle in a haystack. Good luck.