Daniel84

With all due respect with that tone, you would not be a client of mine. I don’t know about your sexual orientation, but a lot of my clients are married , straight, in the in closet ,ect. The Escort clients that do call me are usually the ones that are jacking off and not looking to actually meet. The majority of my business is Massage, which the no show rate is extremely low maybe 2% to 5%. Most of my clients that are looking for a massage are business professionals looking for location,rate, style, pressure and availability. they don’t have time to talk on the phone during a busy workday. Now in regards to Escort clients I try to get them on the phone but it can be very tricky as like I stated above they might be doing this behind a partner, etc.

The 90 minute massage I had scheduled at 5 PM today. Spoke on the phone and confirmed had a great chat actually and also confirmed via text. my 7-9PM tonight flaked ( he read my messages asking if he was coming" after not showing up this morning. We confirmed multiple times via text and has been texting me the last four days. today I had to block off my calendar from 4 PM till 10 PM on a Saturday night and have two clients in a row not show up. we can blame it on the water the weather, the politics or we can just blame it on peoplea lack of respect and civility is a thing of the past.

I would only require deposits for multiple hour appointments. if I have to drive an hour or more to go see a client I do expect some skin in the game. Do you have any idea how many clients I drove a hour to go see and then when I arrive. I message them on rent men and they see I have been blocked. I never understood the reasoning for the Block. Maybe they got off and they don’t need to hire somebody now but instead of just canceling and being respectful, it’s easier to block. I understand the pain in the ass in the feeling of being scammed by some shitty ass providers. I have been scammed myself. but just like dancing, it takes two to tango.

High end barbers/ salons that are in demand require a card on file in case you don't show up. I am not sure where you live. I just got a haircut and a fade in LA and I had to put my credit card information down to book the session.

most clients do not talk on the phone. It is via text. After we go through the needs and wants for each appointment, I always circle back and ask are we confirmed for this set time. What irritates me the most is today two clients confirmed, and one confirmed via phone and text and didn't show up.

The deposit would be for new clients. I would never make my regulars pay me a deposit. If they have questionable reviews on Mr. Number oh hell, yes they have to pay a deposit. They don’t wanna pay a deposit. I’m probably saving myself from a a headache. no, if a client wants to book 3 hours during peak times then yes a deposit is required. It’s very easy to fill a one hour time slot but to fill three hours or more is very difficult.

if I had an inclination that you were messaging multiple guys at the same time, I probably wouldn’t book you as a client because most likely if you get the original guy that you wanted and he becomes available, you would not show up with me and go with the other guy. it has happened numerous times and of how many text messages I receive asking "who is this? "I messaged awhole bunch of guys I’m not sure who this is" Can you send me your ad?.... Maybe I am a outliner but when I’m looking to book a massage I message one guy and wait for a response. If I don’t hear a response in a couple hours, then I’ll message somebody else.

I would only require deposits for multiple hour clients. A great way to stop the time wasters and flakes when I have an outcall they have to call the Uber themselves.

Maybe for new clients, I might require an online booking. Probably use square or one of those sites. They would need to put credit card information to book a session and they can pay with cash when they arrive if they do not show up, they get charged cancellation fee. Just like every single barber that I’ve gone to. if barbers and hair salons required to be booked via online portal why can’t Massage? 95% of the no-shows I’ve had this month have been Escort clients.

Most of my regular customers are either out of town or are conserving their money because they’re uncertain about what the future holds under the new administration.

The anger we feel when providers request a deposit should be directed towards irresponsible clients who book appointments without any intention of showing up. Before the advent of burner phone apps, clients were more concerned about their reputation.

you mean, skipping town because they kept the government open... This month I traveled to San Francisco, LA, Palm Springs and now Washington DC. I have had 15 no shows. but to be honest, it’s their loss. I’ll make sure escorts and massures know not to book them and I wish they have a happy life.

I understand that, but I have a great reputation on this website and my reviews. i’ve been scammed as well and every time I’ve been scammed with pay a $50 deposit or $100 deposit they had zero reviews. well, while I’m typing this my 6:30 PM is now 40 minutes late with no response.. he booked a two hour appointment took up the busiest time of the night..

I’ve been in the business for a very long time with over 150 5 star reviews. The amount of no-shows that I have had the pleasure of dealing with this past month is making me rethink the requirement of deposits. Clients I have seen before would not need to pay deposit. The deposit would be $25 just to know that the client is real and has skin in the game. I had three no-shows today alone. If you can’t make an appointment, grow a pair of balls and cancel or reschedule it. It’s such an easy concept. I hire massage therapist all the time and if I can’t make an appointment or I am running late I will let the provider know.

In today’s society it’s normal to be rude, mean and dishonest. It’s the “Climate “ we live in.

My issue is i am sick and tired of T clients. I don’t mind what somebody does, but I’m not a dealer and I’m not going to do it with you. I’m in San Francisco right now and I lost nine clients in two days because I wouldn’t smoke t with them. I am very frustrated with how the industry and market is at. So many clients have fake burner numbers. I receive tons of fake appointments maybe from Clients or maybe from other escorts. I feel in today’s political environment. People are just mean and disrespectful. To the original poster, I completely understand how you feel the best thing to do is not let these people take up so much oxygen and stop letting these people live rent free in your head.

I talked to the webmaster. 1.0 is being removed soon. I should take my money elsewhere..

Yep, as a has a long-time provider I am forced to use Crypto or MasterCard.

Everyone should send emails to the webmaster and complain

I've been been a provider for 12 years and emailed the webmaster and told them what the fuck did you guys do. There's a saying if it's not broke don't fucking touch it. It's difficult to find my own ad and I'm extremely tech savvy. This will definitely slow down business for me. If I want to be easily found and located, they want me to pay $100 for the sponsor badge per month plus $150 for a banner per month on top of the monthly fee. I was working on creating my own website for massage therapist that I put on hold. I think I might need to speak to my developer and start things up again. I also might cancel rentmassure. It's not worth it

I will continue taking zelle as long as the payment clears.

You can only cancel a zelle payment if it's pending or if there's a hold

His ink is sexy 🔥👅

Me too. If the payment is pending or on hold they can cancel. So apparently the new scam that's going around is when you get the code from your bank. When you send a zelle transfer you put in the wrong code. They would put a hold on the transfer and then you can contact your bank and have them cancel it. I also had a client request money instead of sending the fee. He tried to keep me busy and not check my phone but right before he left I noticed.

Long story short, a client booked a massage with me then upgraded to full service. He sent me the money via zelle but the payment was pending. In all my years of accepting zelle payments, this has never happened to me before. 5 days later the money still hasn't cleared. I contacted my bank and the transaction was canceled by him. The guy has most likely blocked me; but he did overshare where he works and what he does. I'm going to let karma deal with him but going forward I only accept zelle from clients I've seen before. I hate when providers take advantage of clients and when clients take advantage of providers. What's crazy to me is after the guy left he sent me a text saying if I ever wanted to use his ass to unload for free. Let me know.. lol ( while he canceled the payment )