I think to many are doing this completely on the side ... so if they make an appointment, great. If they don’t make one oh well. They book all the can to have the option but have multiple other things that take a higher priority.
I understand there are a lot of flakes with clients.. but just as many with escorts.
Last time I rented I had to message three guys to try to book a appointment two days down the road , got responses from all initially but only one communicated fully and was able to meet him. Others didn’t respond or told me we were on to meet and never confirmed, then sent me something the day of they couldn’t make it.