I choose the person based on the similarities between our ads. Also I have good intuition about these things. Sadly, half the time many escorts don't respond. Then I just reach out to someone else. I've developed several friendships from these get togethers and also it's nice to know I have a place to stay free of change if I want to return to a given place. Of course they are also welcome to stay with me in Minneapolis and check out the market here.