if the fat comment is true:
1 Maybe his neighbors downstairs complain theres too much noise. after all he could get evicted he's running a biz out of his place.
2 Maybe he's just not good at massages to bigger men
3 how big exactly is "overweight"?
i think understanding his situation is more respectful of his line of work.
4 but the ad with the disclaimer "open sores " is a red flag to me = negative attitude is a turn off despite him being hot.