TylerandAce

Thanks for that! We can’t wait. The side trip advice is very helpful!! You’re the best

GRAB sounds like a good plan! lol. Trying to make a decision now about hotels. Should we stay super modern and trendy at the LeMeridien or more traditional at the Ping Nakara or inside the old city at Bodhi Serene?

We do love DC and very overdue for a visit!! XO

So, we've decided 4 nights in Bangkok, 3 nights in Chiang Mai, 3 nights in Krabi, and 3 nights in Phuket. I've found a ferry that gets us from Krabi to Phuket through the Phi Phi Islands, so we will do some stuff there. Now we just have to book all the hotels and excursions! whew!

Awesome! So many opportunities and we can't do them all. The decision making is tough!!

Much appreciated, sexy. Looking great! Another question...what about Krabi? How's the scene there? Looks beautiful in photos and the reviews seem good from what I can tell so far.

Thanks! I've been using that one. It's very good.

Very much appreciated. The tips are helpful and reinforce what I've been reading, so thanks. We are definitely beach people, so maybe Phuket isn't all bad? Probably depends on the area you choose. Is there a "gay" beach area more than another? We will stick to the coastal parts, although Chiang Mai sounds really cool. Doing more research now, but definitely will do Kho Samui.

oh, you can wealth shame me any time. We is broke mofo's. This bitch has 3 kids in college. Thanks for the plan-B suggestions!

Gorgeous hotel and fantastically situated, but is there one you'd suggest that isn't for the one-tenth-of-one-percenters? We is workin' men.

Thanks Benjamin! Really kind of you. Investigating now.

got it! Thanks and great advice I'll DM with more

Thank you... I guess the things we've been reading are more true, then. Appreciate the info!

Understood...have read something like that about the public displays and nudity on beaches. Thanks for the information. If you have a favorite place to stay in Koh Samui, I'll certainly take recommendations. I may also DM you with other questions if it's not an imposition. We arrive March 29 and depart April 12

Good information! Thank you so much. Yes, we were looking at the Jomtien Complex area. Great suggestion for Koh Samui. We have read that Phuket is completely overrun with tourists. Another question....there is no nude beach scene, right?

Yep...first time for both of us. Bangkok because of my (Ace) day job. Staying over for a while. Pattaya because it's near Bangkok and seems to be concentrated gay with a gay beach and gay tourist area. Phuket because I've always wanted to see it. Definitely open to suggestions, though.!

Looking for advice on that. Thinking somewhere in Bangkok for a few days, then Pattaya before heading to Phuket.

gotcha. thanks. Clients are hiring at the bars/clubs?

Reading here on the forum and a few blogs about the plethora of affordable local "talent" available in all of Thailand, especially Bangkok, is it even worth the effort of posting for hire while we are there in April? I see several listings on RM in that area, but for those who've been there and tried to work, what should we expect?

Lol...lessons learned. We’ve had our growing pains with it, too. I don’t think we ever ran anybody off, though ? lol. It’s definitely a process

Happy to share. We do only see clients together as a couple. Tyler retired from doing work with studios when we got together in 2013. He still appears in the content we do for our fans pages, of course, but we only do it together. Even the scenes that are solo with him and another partner, I’m the cameraman in the room. It works with LOTS of communication and constant check-ins. It’s not easy, but we have a mutual understanding about boundaries and inclusion. Egos are nothing to play around with in a relationship, and we know that. Thankfully, we both like watching the other one with a third or even fourth. We don’t do groups so much because we tend to lose each other and it’s not as comfortable. It took a while for us to work to this point and we seldom invite another person recreationally. We both have different types, so agreeing on a guy is tough if it’s not business. Also, if it’s not business that means there’s a risk for too much attraction by one or the other. We talk through that and understand that men always like new. Thankfully, we enjoy that together and it is, honestly, healthy for our relationship. It doesn’t lead to less sex, either. On the contrary, it makes us more into each other to have the experiences. It’s hard to explain to folks who don’t really understand, especially straights. Also, seeing clients is a different motivation for each of us, and we understand that, too. It just takes communication.

you’re right, of course! We’ll be happy to give you the version of what they were going to shoot...without the drag! Rofl

Exactly right. The format would demand different involvement. HBO would be going after some drama and entertainment

Ain’t no teasin!!! ??

Lol...of a sort, yes! ??