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Its been a year since I've looked into spas and reading the last 10-15 pages it seems there have been a lot of changes so I thought I would ask again. Any of these new places or new working masseurs fall into the "daddy daddy/bear" range? 45+, prefer slightly overweight but will take muscular. I don't even need a happy ending at this point, I just want a big old man with meaty hands to massage me in a spa setting. I can get the happy ending from solo therapists I enjoy but I'm bored with going to houses, walking up 4 flights of steps to a cluttered apartment, and I like the atmosphere of a good massage place. Thanks.

I have been looking for that kind of masseur for a long time and it seems to be quite difficult to find one especially an Asian one (that’s my preference). I wish there was a spa that caters to our taste.

Hi there -- longtime lurker finally compelled to post after an experience today that I'm sort of freaking out about.

 

Today I had a sensual massage booked with "extras" but the extra that I experienced was a bit more than anticipated and things just went kind of fast, so now I'm wondering if I need to look into PEP options and the like. This was with a top-rated masseur who has had lots of glowing recommendations on this site, but I didn't know that things would escalate so quickly and leave me feeling like this.

 

Am I overthinking everything? Happy to explain more over DM if anyone's inclined to reach out and help settle my mind. Thanks so much.

Don’t stress too much, that happened to me twice in a similar situation as what you described. Both times I went on pep and I am now on prep just to have extra protection. Go to a clinic or er and start the pep if you haven’t done it yet .

Has anyone tried him ?

https://rentmasseur.com/Marcuz

I believe he is now based in Miami (used to be Dallas til about 6 months ago) I see that he posts pics from NYC once in a while but I haven’t seen him at Adonis in a few months .

Has anyone tried him ?

https://rentmasseur.com/Demian

Saw Andy at wmen spa the other day. I forgot how good he is . Strong and in control the whole time . I had not seen him in a very long time and I am please to say that he I still one of my favorites in the city . He aims to give a great experience and he knows how to make that happen using his skills and natural talent.

Alejo is back in NYC supposedly on vacation . I am almost sure he will be at the Adonis events while he is here . I don’t like his new neck tattoo at all (To me tattoos are like a scratch on the statue of david) but his body is so hot !

https://rentmen.eu/Hamptonn

He is an escort that also does massage, so for the price of a massage he doesn't do much more, otherwi$$$e he goes all the way.

Sorry that we can’t be too specific in this forum but I assure you that the $$$ was way above average in NYC and the 45 min instead of 60 was quite annoying.

Mike_NY on RentMen.

 

But he’s expensive.

Mike_NY has probably the best muscle Asian body in NYC in my opinion . He is also a nice guy but unfortunately as Calvin mentioned he is expensive and limited. I saw him about 6 months ago at his place and I was out in less than 45 min.

I have seen Patrick and was very satisfied with his massage. I don't know William but I do know the spa. Shangrila is super clean and well worth the price. I don't now what you are looking for but I would encourage you to visit again.

Yes of course I will go back . I even mentioned that in the post.

Closed by the NYPD for "Prostitution" sign on the door. Let's be careful out there guys

What’s closed ?

I just had to stop by yeah man to get a heavy duty massage to exorcise the previous one . Was I lucky . This time I got Charlie who is Thai and gives a very energetic massage . He was literally sliding with his forearms from top to bottom and I left feeling like a soft noodle . Just what I needed . Charlie is not as technical as Chen but he really does his best to please and has a great personality . He is about 5’7” and very atletic.

I just came out of Shangrila . This was my first time and I was welcomed in by a very polite Thai guy I can’t remember his name maybe Patrick ? Anyway he was bringing me into a room next to the waiting area when I saw a well built taller than average Chinese guy called William. I couldn’t help myself and asked the Thai guy if I could switch and he very nicely obliged. Well that was a mistake . The massage was way too soft even though I told him he could be more aggressive . William was very nice and polite and he does give a decent technical soft massage but he lacks all the sensual relaxing elements I expected . He was just nice and cute but nothing else . Very disappointing from a guy that looks so athletic and strong . I even extended the massage to 90 minutes to give him a chance. Next time I’ll try someone else for sure . On my way out I paid Xiao who is also running utopia . By the way this spa is beautiful and clean . Very nice place. I got the membership of course . I guess I expected more . After all it did cost me 200$ by the time I was done .

The Alejo at the Adonis party is someone else . He also goes by a different name (Andy) he is originally from Colombia and normally based in Texas. He’s been serious about becoming a competitive bodybuilder lately. I’ve never seen him here in NYC before but I hope he becomes a regular . I can’t give more info unfortunately but hopefully he will decide himself if he want to divulge more. Or just go to Adonis/Spunk club get a lap dance and ask yourself .

Great thank you

Glad you started this thread!

 

Not sure if he’s over 40, Xiao, owner of Utopia and Shangri La, who also does private:

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/20709/

 

Clark. Seen him a few times. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/2186/

 

KT is 38. One of my regulars. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/24861/

 

Always been curious about these guys, and don’t know their ages, but all seem mature in experience:

Stephen: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/116/

 

Matin:

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1687/

 

Jae: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28486/

Thank you for the info . I did try Xiao (Jack) he was ok but we had no chemistry I guess. I will try the other ones you had a good experience with . I had a few massages by Stephen in the past and he was really good . I also tried Matin and he was too effeminate for me.

If anyone has a good older Asian (over 40) masseur in NYC please pm me .

Thank you

Just had Chen the other day at yeah man spa . He is as usual an incredible masseur and he even walked on my back to release knots I didn’t know I had . Great finishing and he really aims to please . Very nice guy . Definitely the best at yeah man and one of my absolute favorites in NYC . Plus the prices are very competitive so make sure you tip well !!!

Hi. I am kinda surprise by the responses to Adam because I didn’t get that impression .i must say however that during My last massage he left the room about four times and although he apologies , it kinda ruined the session for me . Adam gives a good massage but if that situation happens to me I would definitely stop going

I am not sure if I tip generiously , I think I do because it’s usually 50% or 100% . As I mention it’s only recently I started going to the spa.

I did have negative experience with the Egyptian at 27 men and with two guys at Super men as much so that I don’t go back . I feel that type of reaction spoils the experience .

Looking to try other places any suggestions ?

Any private masseuse that are reasonably priced ?

Who is the Egyptian at 27 men and why didn’t you like the experience ? If you prefer you can IM me . Thank you .

That’s how it felt to me . I do usually prefer Asian masseurs because they have a smoother skin like mine. I guess he is not considered above average hairy to everyone . I do think he is a nice guy and well equipped to give a good massage.

Robin is my new fave

Great massage skills and a sweetheart.

That’s funny because I don’t remember Yura being hairy at all. Are you sure it was him? Maybe I missed the hair, but honestly don’t remember it at all. Lol

 

I’ll be back for him onky because the end was fireworks and amazing. Also liked his massage.

Yes he is tall exotic and “hairy” . Great personality and very well equipped to give a great massage experience. I am not into hair at all so for me even feeling a hairy arm massaging my smooth sensitive skin is not relaxing . But he is a nice guy and so far the best looking I saw there.

Do you have a link to a website or an address possibly?

 

'Times Square Spa' is very vague ...

https://yelp.to/qTKq/I7NQFY3SfS

https://yelp.to/qTKq/I7NQFY3SfS

The setup is really nice and clean . It’s probably the best looking men spa right now in Manhattan (of the ones I know ). Probably on par with utopia but I din’t ask if they have a table shower room as well.

I went in without appointment and asked for the much reviewed Adam but he was already booked. He is a good looking supposedly Mongolian Russian chap. He reminded me a bit of my favorite guy Tiger who used to work at the basement spa on w 22 st (closed a few years ago)

I was given Robin .

Robin is extremely technical and strong. His massage can be borderline painful. I am sure some guys will ask for a lighter pressure. I like it strong so no problem . There were a few tantric relaxing massage moves thrown in but it’s mostly more like a sports massage. I left feeling aligned and balanced but not as relaxed as I would have liked . Robin is very polite, cute and doesn’t talk too much which is nice. All the guys I saw were in their 20s (like in most other spas). I wish they also had some guys in their 40s. Just a preference of mine .

Just had Yura at spa 27. Good technique but the guy is very hairy . Even the hair in his forearms which he uses to massage my back felt like sand paper . Over all a very sweet guy, very well equipped to give a relaxing experience but a little too chatty at the beginning . The room was cozy and clean. I saw a couple of other guys at the reception a Latin young guy out of shape and an Asian I might try next time .