I consider myself an attractive guy who hires.  However, I also know that chemistry takes two for it to work.   I always provide a succinct yet informative physical description of myself to my companion.  I try to be as objective as I can about height, weight, etc.  When it comes to race, I state that I'm Latino. I even tell the guy I'm uncut.  I do all this for 2 reasons:  I like for the escort to be as fully informed as possible so that he can opt in/out but also so that he can put himself in the frame of mind to make the best of our time together.   The second reason is pride:  by writing down or telling him my dimensions - height, weight, race, etc, I'm subsconsciously owning who I perceive myself to be physically.  Not with the intent to box me in, but to be proud of my own packaging.