Welcome aboard, @Sandlapp !
I would add that to get best referrals in this forum, it is essential for the client to be crystal clear about what he is looking for in the escort. Chemistry is a tricky thing. My best referrals have come thru very detailed private conversations with forum members. Reading the public posts is helpful, but the one-on-one discussions are better and also avoid derailers. Additionally, I believe it should be expected and common courtesy to close the loop with the referrer once you hired that escort. This serves two purposes: helps the person who helped you get closure but also augments their perspective on the escort. Lastly, please don't blame the referrer if things don't work out. I remember losing face with a forum buddy bc the escort I referred stood him up. Although that was out of my control, I felt awful and the fact that my forum buddy kept rubbing it in made it worse. Let's give each other some grace; there are no guarantees.