I’ve been to these. Though I wouldn’t say erotic in the full on sex meaning. And it’s been a few months so things may have changed, but the massage itself was very good for both.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/jamie.shtml
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/zenmanoc.shtml
I wanted to try the new guy in Costa Mesa but his ad has disappeared. His ad was something like ‘brand new massage’ and I think his name was Brandon.