I see people's pov here, but to clarify:
- I didn't mention he is disgusted by having sex with another man, he is just not turned on by it. It requires more concentration to stay hard without ED meds
- he didn't cum because he wanted to, I asked him if he could. If you rub the penis long enough, it will cum.
- I didn't hire him because he is straight, but because he is a hot young virile man. I would prefer hiring a gay or bi guy though, because there's a higher chance that someone gay or bi could be into having sex with me instead of someone straight going through the motions.
- I don't think it's a power dynamic where I am asking him to do something he doesn't want to do. He is not desperate and told me he only does this because of the allure of making a lot of money quickly. You can look at it also that he is taking my hard earned money using his good looks to entice me.
I had a good time. We smiled and hugged in the end. It wasn't a traumatic event for anyone, just 2 people exploring life and learning more about it and themselves.