People hire for different reasons. Know why you are doing it and assess if it's healthy for you. I don't go to Grindr searching for a life partner (though it's been known to happen). I don't hire to be validated, but to explore my sexuality, which would otherwise take forever if I simply stick to the hookup apps. I can fortunately also meet people who I consider to be out of my league, physically. (Thank goodness for those beauties that make themselves available in this manner. ) I have a strong appetite for sex and that's just human nature.