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I am not sure if "forgive and forget" is a decision
 
It may be a gift

2 cliches... You reap what you sow. What you give is what you get. What goes around, comes around. Sorry, I got nothin' else.
Here I just post 'What goes around comes around' and JDXXX says the same. . Brilliant minds do think alike.

We are aren't we JDXXX? Partly because you bring out the best in us sir. Your posts make us laugh, cry, get angry but mostly make us think.

Sorry but I'm part Latino I out rank you. Now on your knees.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Well, since I am Catholic, then I can give double barrel guilt

Mama always said " Don't get mad, get even".

You telling someone to get on their knees. Really??? Aren't they usually telling you that? . Ok, ok, sorry got off topic. Now back to our regularly scheduled program... whatever that is.

i try to forgive & forget, but I don't expect others to forgive me or forget what I've done to them. It is actually kinda liberating for me to live my life that way bc I don't have to hold myself accountable for the actions of others - only for my own. If I offend someone I care for (I have to care for them), and I want them to forgive me, I put myself to work to eventually gaining their forgiveness; however, I don't ever expect them to forget it nor be grudge-free. That's their baggage to work thru.
 
I do try my very best to not hold a grudge- that's debilitating. I'm working on that. Ask me again in a century or so.

SeaboyforHire has the best answer. 'Forgive, don't forget'. And you don't want to carry around all that negative energy of holding a grudge.

Hi Geminibear,
 
Thanks for creating this thread as I myself in the past year have been painfully hurt and betrayed recently by a couple of people I thought were my close friends, and came to find out they bad mouthed me to each other, and even stabbed me in the back on more then one occasion.
 
Wanted to get even, and been tempted to do so considering the circumstances of how badly burned I was in the situation, but decided to take the "high road" instead.
 
Really hurts when you been loyal to someone you consider as a friend, and then consequently in the end find out they've betrayed your trust and confidence in them cold-heartedly to others. Then when you call them out on it, and express your hurt and anger - they wanna so call end they're association/friendship with you after they've done you wrong viciously.
 
Really hurts to be burned terribly in that manner, but it's good these things do happen to show us who are true friends are in this world.
 
Now, how shitty is that? By them ending a friendship after you call them like that shows maybe they can't stand you hurt you, and is a firm of guilt maybe?
 
I can totally relate what your experiencing, and sorry to hear this happened to you.
 
I'd say take the high road, and eventually forgive, but not hold a grudge. I'm gonna do the same thing is to forgive, but on guard of who I consider as close friends from now on. Especially if I been burned by them already horrifically in the past without end.
 
Be the bigger person and forgive, baby as it'll pay off to keep a positive outlook and know what goes around does eventually come around to those who are nasty individuals that can't be trusted with a two dollar bill as karma my dear can be a vicious bitch too. Just doesn't pay to be nasty to people, and always be gracious and kind to others as when your nasty to people who been loyal and kind to you, it'll come back on you and sometimes 10 times fold worse then the crap that person has done unto you.
 
Just isn't worth it, and best to take the high road in these sort of unfortunate circumstances.
 
Really is a shame, but it happens, and we move on with our head up high knowing they're are more fish in the sea as you win some and you lose some as they swim up stream. ;)

SeaboyforHire has the best answer. 'Forgive, don't forget'. And you don't want to carry around all that negative energy of holding a grudge.

Eventually, I forgive after a LOOOONG time.

Nobody on A4A lies, they all have 8 inch + penises!

but his ad says no drugs, no alcohol......and no one lies in their profile....do they?

I can bring the chocolates. Damn, the floor is wet. I hope I don't slip in.

Soak in a nice lavender Epsom salt bath with some candles and relaxing music.
 
Hugs,
Greg

You're absolutely right. You're intitled to yours and I'm intitled to mine.

You're absolutely right. You're intitled to yours and I'm intitled to mine.

You should write a review. Your post seems suspicious to me. . Just a thought.

Dan Brown

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/la-et-01013-ct-ott-mania-20151229-story.html
An interesting article from the L.A. Times about cutting the cord.

http://www.quickmeme.com/img/67/672f5a3c22c56ff5c45971c54f474f491e95cc5083d84685bc75f10d6d2534de.jpg
 
That's at least what I would do...

Maryl, What are you trying to do to us/me? . I was having a nice quiet day and now I'm all hot and bothered. You know what I have to do?

Derek and me. (We're both really 28 but we lie about our age to appear older since daddies are "in.")
 
http://rentmen.com/munroeross

I think most companions using these services would not divulge it for fear of turning off the client...unless they know you could care less - like me.
 
Sometimes I've wondered how many messages a communications expert may have going on at once. I actually picture a a housewife in her suburban kitchen, dressed in a robe & towel wrapped around her head, smoking a cig while handling a myriad of texts from horny clients telling her all their dos and don'ts and likes/dislikes