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Tried Phil at Batman Spa last week based on feedback on this and Batman Spa and older masseurs thread. I wouldn't say he's that much older, but not a twink - maybe early 30's. Nice and gifted guy. Decent massage at first, escalated quickly with upsell if that's what you're looking for. An ok experience that actually lasted the full hour, glad I tried, won't repeat though.

I would have tipped more. Massage was $90 I tipped $60

Had a great massage at Times Sq Mens Spa with Latino (Harry? couldn't understand his name). Unfortunately a 90 min massage ended in 75 min. Killed the whole experience. Why do guys do this?!? They work hard for 75% of the time and ruin it by shorting the time. As I was laying there I thought I had found a new regular but the time short made me feel ripped off. Oh well, on with the search.

I agree with MarkNY with walls that go all the way to ceiling and doors, in addition a quiet room with an appropriate temperature. The two worse things in my book: don't solicit or bargain for tips and absolutely don't cut the session short. That drives my business elsewhere permanently.

This place is disgusting! Dirty rooms, old old old towels, one handed massages while they text with the other, and demanding of high tips.

ahhhhhhh, thanks. Can't imagine paying that for anyone.

I saw him about 5 years ago. Decent massage, nice clean apartment, MT, HE. Didn't ever repeat though.

There's a guy on rentmasseur in Philly who goes by Arab Experience who's very intriguing to me. Has anyone tried him?

Tony and Alan used to be my two go-tos at Greenhouse on 14th St pre covid. Anyone know where they are now, specifically Alan?

I went there a few weeks ago. Got a skinny, older guy. Decent massage, but mechanical rushed ending. Saw a muscular good looking guy taking in another customer. Anyone know who this guy is? Is he Kai? Thanks!

Had a massage at 27 on Tuesday and noticed a good looking asian guy when I was leaving. Anyone know the current asian guy's names here?

I find this hard to believe. Alvin is a very nice, respectful guy.

Greenhouse used to be my goto. I wonder why their new location hasn't been discussed.

Crossed Grandee off my list a long time ago. Tired old facilities, tip negotiators, dirty massage rooms with walls that don't go to ceiling and you can hear the loud employees in the hallways, and worst of all, the massages I had there were very frequently cut short by 10 min (I don't think I ever had a massage there that lasted the full hour).

What does Sebastian at TSMS look like? Skinny, longer hair, medium height and a little scruffy? TSMS is my go to and did a walk in a few weeks ago. Took the guy who answered the door against my instincts as I got a lazy, cold feeling from him. Terrible massage, no technique, just all the way up and down my body from top to bottom over and over. Then he asked me for a minimum of a $60 tip. I asked for his name so I wouldn't get him again, but it was different than anyone who they said was working when I had called before I went in. He said why do you want to know and then told me Chris. I knew he was lying. Disappointing as that was my first bad experience there.

They have a history of being unprofessional there. I don't get it - they spend all that time, effort and money every couple years to rebrand the place, yet carry over the same practices. I can say that over the years I've never had a good memorable experience there. If I had to give it a rating, I'd say c- across the board. Even the halfway decent massages that I may have ended up with there were ruined because they tend to cut them 10 min short. There are better spas who try much harder to please than to have to resort to patronizing this one.

I had a Mike at Shangrila. I'd say he was late 20's and had a skinny twinkish build. He went to work immediately and after he took care of that, he proceeded to give me a mediocre massage..... seemed very disinterested and just basically went through the motions. I saw a handsome dark skinned asian (?) guy with a mustache on the way out, wish I had gotten his name.

I gave up on Energy Spa a long time ago. Great location, went there a handful of times, and not once did I get more than 45-50 min out of the hour I paid for.

Charlie at Times Square Mens Spa is no longer there. Anyone know where he's working now?

I can't stand being cut short. I'm a great tipper and 5 minutes short, the tip goes down $10-$20 depending on the overall quality of the massage, 10 minutes short, another $10-$20 and I write that provider off. There are too many good ones to choose from. I don't understand why they would spend almost an hour providing a service and then not finish for 5-10 more minutes. Part of the basic service is simply giving the service for the agreed upon time. They know exactly what they are doing. Would they go over an hour by 5-10 minutes in your favor? I don't think so. This is a definite pattern at Energy Spa and I eliminated that place from my mix a long time ago.

I like the old Greenhouse and most of the guys there. I do have to agree though that they have a pattern of shorting you 10 min on a massage. An hour massage is typically 50 min. I stopped going because of this. Found a couple guys at other spas that consistently give the full hour, so I'd rather give them my money. I don't get it, just give me what I pay for and we'll all be happy.

Loved king spa but be careful I spent the night there several months ago and had awful bed bug bites all over. Afraid to go back.

Looking back I regret not tipping less - actually I regret not ending the massage after 30 min. I probably would have jumped up off the table if I wasn't coated in half the bottle of oil. I guess I did what I did because he went through the motions and did the entire job I went in there for (albeit badly). I don't think I wouldn't never tip since it's an assumed part of the fee at these places. I just won't ever use or recommend him again and thought I'd share my experience here so maybe people who consider 27 won't waste their money on him. I usually stick with my tried and true guys anyway but felt like something new and fresh, which obviously ended in disappointment. Oh well, I guess that's part of the fun.

Went to 27 spa a couple days ago in NYC. The irish guy, I think Shane was up. Wasn't into his look at all; tall, lanky with long hair. Nice enough guy, but I saw a cute asian in the lobby, so I asked for him. His name was Nick. Bad choice. He was 100% disinterested the entire time. After drowning me in oil, he started randomly squeezing me up and down my body with no technique at all. I thought this has to get better, well it didn't. His random squeezing went from two hands to one. After a couple minutes, I realized he was texting with the other hand. This happened several times throughout the massage. I should have ended the massage the first time, but I thought the texting would have been an isolated incident and that I'd let him finish. It never got better. It was one of the worst massages I ever had. I tipped him $30 which I could have kicked myself for after I left. I usually tip $40 and thought that $20 would have been too insulting, I should have went with the $20. I will probably stick with one of my tried and true spots like Times Square Spa or one of my other favorites rather than taking a chance at 27 again. A total waste of $90.