My experience was more positive - i laid down on his massage table and he started with a very sensual body rub. True, It was not a professional, clinical, therapeutic massage. It was more along the lines of the kind of massage your bf would give you as foreplay. Lots of full body contact, getting on top of me, straddling me. I found it very enjoyable - i felt he was giving me his total attention and his goal was to maximize my pleasure. It did move to more play more quickly, but i wasn't objecting. Once that part was over there were some small and sensual "coming down" strokes that were tender and nurturing. The whole session was prob 45 mins but I would go back.