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Love the massage therapists who take pride in their oral skills.

A lot of people are turned off by discussing or negotiating money terms. The vast majority of business employees are too intimidated to ask for a raise, even when they deserve an increase. For providers who use "ask" in their ads, they risk closing the door on opportunities. OTOH, for those customers who don't mind negotiation, "ask" usually opens the door to better communication. IME, providers don't like surprises. They respond better when they know what the customer really wants. If you're willing to engage in an "ask" discussion, you might be surprised by the outcome. I have often found the discussion ended in my favor.

Thank you for posting that info. Your service looks like a lot of fun. Wish I could travel to experience it. Twitter will have to do for now.

Some guys want to protect themselves from legal liability. Each state is different. In New York State, it is illegal to provide "massage" service without a license. It is illegal to charge money for a "massage" service if you are not licensed. It is illegal to perform "massage" service in a location where it may be against the law. If caught violating any of these laws, you can end up in jail. Even if you are licensed, it may be illegal to perform the service in your home. You'd have to know the local zoning laws to be sure. Each building may have their own rules regarding work from home. If a legal case is brought against you, any ad that shows you asked for money in exchange for a "massage" service could be evidence against you. The legal onus for massage service is on the provider, not the customer. If someone has "Ask" in his ad, I would consider that person a bit more cautious. IMO, "Ask" may not mean scam at all. In fact, it could mean the opposite. Self-protection, which in turn can protect you. I found this at a law site: Because you need a license to give massages, merely an offer to give a massage or holding yourself out as an individual who can give massages is punishable as an "E" felony if you do not have a license to do so. While this offense is not considered Prostitution and a violation of New York Penal Law Article 230, the ramifications may be worse. The reality is that law enforcement, such as the NYPD, often pursues this charge as means to prosecute those people they believe are involved in Prostitution, but are unable to charge them with the crime of Prostitution or any of the other related offenses.

It probably is a lease requirement. If found out after the fact, he could be evicted and seriously fined. Ever since 9/11, the days of avoiding non-nosy neighbors are long gone. Doing business from home requires disclosure, especially if the business invites other people into the building.

Because, when the IRS comes knocking, you want an authorized, licensed person to handle your case to avoid any personal interaction between you and the IRS. Any reputable CPA will tell a customer to never speak to the IRS on your own. Always let a professional represent you.

I don't like surprises, so knowing in advance would be key to me. I have friends who live in walk ups, and I don't question visiting them. As for massage service in a walk up, 3-5 floors might stimulate some body odor, depending on how many steps. As long as natural armpit smell is ok with you, I'm there.

I had many roommates in my early years. Some straight guys, but mostly gay guys. I had a spacious spare bedroom, which was easy to rent. Since the lease was mine, I felt responsible. The apartment insurance was in my name. I was a hobbyist DJ. I had expensive sound equipment in my apartment. I felt I had to lay ground rules. No guests without my permission. Luckily for me, none of the guys were sex addicts, but 1 or 2 turned out to have drug problems. I had to push one guy out. It's no fun living with an addict.

So many paying guys fall prey to the photo fantasy. Luka knows the game. That's how guys like Luka stay in business. I'd bet he's closer to 50.

I don't like it either, but some selfish people can't resist. I wish someone could show me "harassment" anywhere on this thread. That's part of the problem with hate-filled politics, us vs. them. People see things that don't exist.

Well here's a little fact about a pandemic. If one person isn't safe, no one is safe. I'm really tired of the selfish and the self-righteous, preaching about their pride in being selfish, and calling everyone else stupid or brainwashed by the media.

I have never left my socks on during a massage, but I can relate to the pain of chilled feet. I don't know why this happens, but if a therapist leaves my naked feet uncovered during a massage, I can easily get foot cramps. They are very painful and awkward. The cramps don't occur with a simple sheet cover, but some massage therapists don't offer that. If the weather is cold outside or there's a question of having enough heat in the room, I always ask about a sheet cover for my feet. Otherwise, the thought of enduring feet cramps during a massage will kill the experience for me.

I'm with the OP. I hate going without massage, but I'm not taking any chances with my health. No health = no life. Plus, everyone I know who caught Covid, no matter how mild, complains about their health not being the same. I'm sorry. There are too many unknowns with this virus. I'd rather stay virus free. I lasted this long without massage, I can last another year if necessary.

Farting happens, especially if you're over 50 and waiting to take a proper dump. Trying to control it can sometimes cause excruciating pain. Far more uncomfortable than letting go on date. If I were in bed, I'd be considerate enough to get to the nearest bathroom before letting go. In the middle of a fuck? I'd probably ignore it unless he shit my bed. Massage therapists often deal with customer farting. It comes with the job. Many therapists are very understanding about this. I had one massage therapist go ballistic because his customer farted through the entire massage. Best not to eat Tex-Max just before getting a massage. Most people pay attention to these things, but there are always outliers.

I come from a family of smokers. I know four people who died from emphysema. Not a fun way to go. I have one family member who went back to smoking four weeks after she had quadruple bypass surgery. The smell of smoke makes me want to vomit. Not a good feeling for a sexual encounter. Can't stomach cigars or pipes either. I can't help it but when I smell smoke on a person, I immediately associate the smell with a death wish. Not at all sexy.