Sadly sometimes we don’t know what’s behind the scenes until afterwards. A long time ago I hired a guy who upfront presented real well - until I got to his place. This guy was a hard core drug user with a shitload of drug paraphernalia in his bathroom. He was gorgeous in person as he was in pics. He will fool anyone. It was obvious he was doing it for drug money. In person he was edgy, irratic definitely high. To avoid any potential violence I gave him half of his fee and I took off.
The next day he texted me several times wanting to meet up at significantly low rates. Every time I declined - he lowered his rate. I finally blocked his number.