Kerryslate

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it.
 
What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody.
 
In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that.
 
Best wishes and good luck.

Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow.
I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door.
 
Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into.
 
There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced.
 
I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire

Hey you never know role play can be fun lol.

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow.
I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door.
 
Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into.
 
There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced.
 
I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire

First of all, I ditto azdr's sentiment. That goes a long way in my book. I will be forever grateful for the men and women who helped protect my freedom. That said..Personally I like Kerry Slate's response. No shows are a bitch, I get that, but we're all human. Not saying it's OK, just that shit happens sometimes. Should KS ever find himself in FTL on a winter break...I'd be all in.

Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow.
I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door.
 
Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into.
 
There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced.
 
I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire

Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow.
I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door.
 
Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into.
 
There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced.
 
I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire

thanks for the reply, @Kerryslate.....and thank you for your service to the country.....
 
I hope jbs and Kerry will contact each other and come to an agreement.....both are good people: jbs has been a longtime and sincere forum member....and Kerry has been a longtime loyal entertainer at the Adonis LA events, and saw active military combat before that.....

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

I've had a lot of experience with him lol.