Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow.
I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door.
Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into.
There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced.
I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire