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There’s a big difference between “not really into” And “disgusted by.” And you had already decided that Ben wouldn’t like you because you’re Asian. So now you’re looking for more reasons to make up why some guy you’ve never met might not be attracted to you? I agree that there are a lot of guys who don’t realize how hot Asian guys can be (they should see Crazy Rich Asians - the guys are smokin’!) but you’re just in the realm of self-defeating fantasy now.

Rainer, in my experience

Lower back issues, tight hamstrings, the occasional pinched nerve: Whom do you rely on in Los Angeles to work it out effectively? I’m certainly not opposed to sensual in addition to the therapeutic work and, in fact, I prefer the kind of massage where I’m not wrapped up like a mummy, shielding the practitioner from even remote contact with my nether regions. So I’d rather not go to a spa. Who on Masseurfinder or even RentMasseur actually has healing skills and deep-tissue talents? In my experience, these include Blair and Alex (below). I’d like some more options, too. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6826/ https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4069/ Thanks!

170? His Masseurfinder ad quotes 140 for an hour, 200 for 90 minutes.

I hear what you’re saying but I think that consenting adults can explore power dynamics if all parties are equipped. Knowing your own boundaries is extremely important. I am very aware of mine and am experienced enough to navigate such a situation, but I might not have been able to 15 or 20 years ago.

I just had a great session with Rainer in L.A. and it felt like my first alpha massage experience- he took control, nonverbally dominating, motioned for me to sit up at one point and he backed up into me, inviting me to explore his body. In that situation I tend to meet the guy with my own alpha demands whispered in his ear (“Massage my legs hard but don’t touch my cock till I say you can...”). It was really hot. Wondering about your alpha massage experiences.

I went for it and hired Rainer for 90 minutes. Boy, am I happy I did. It was a little iffy at first - he greeted me without a smile and instructed me to place my things on the chair. He undressed and said, simply, “Face down, good to go.” While he is incredibly sexy, I was put off by his manner. But once the very deep massage began, it became clear that this was part of his routine - in a good way. Tough, strong, alpha, non-verbal, very interactive. Feel free to PM me for more.

He’ll be in vacation at Burning Man, judging by the photos.

We have the same taste. I went to Ben a few months ago: Wow.

I saw Brad years ago, when he was smaller. I hate to reduce people to physical traits but he’s not that attractive to me anymore.

Going to answer my own question and would love other thoughts. I’ve had great experiences with: Jeff https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1630/ Anthony https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/ Alex (therapeutic) https://rentmasseur.com/AussieAlex All of them, while not exactly beefy, approximate my idea of “real man” bodies - muscular but not perfect, a little something to hold on to. Hoping to find another option and thinking of Rainer: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12857/

Oops. I went back to revise headline and it posted it a second time. Don’t know how to delete it. Sorry.

Every LA guy on Masseurfinder is either slim and toned (not my thing) or muscular and ripped. Where are the beefy-muscular guys? I’m repeatedly drawn to the ripped guys in pics because they are like godly ideals but in person these guys are too perfect. When it comes down to it, I’m most turned on by a guy who was fat or would be fat if he didn’t lift weights but still eats bread and so isn’t all cut. I probably have to go to the midwest to find these guys but I’m in L.A. Any help?

Every LA guy on Masseurfinder is either slim and toned (not my thing) or muscular and ripped. Where are the beefy-muscular guys? I’m repeatedly drawn to the ripped guys in pics because they are like godly ideals but in person these guys are too perfect. When it comes down to it, I’m most turned on by a guy who was fat or would be fat if he didn’t lift weights but still eats bread and so isn’t all cut. I probably have to go to the midwest to find these guys but I’m in L.A. Any help?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4069/

Oh, man, I hadn’t even thought about the 30 minute payment! That always seems ridiculous. But clearly I should have paid him less. Sigh. I’ll consider it an outcall humidity jack-up, so to speak.

Vlad came to my place yesterday. He has a great smile and a truly incredible body but almost no English. We could barely navigate “would you like a glass of water,” let alone “would you continue massaging me now that we’ve both gotten off but it’s only been half an hour?” The massage itself was good - on the bed, fully nude, dangling, at ease with MT - but he turned me over pretty quickly and at that point who could resist groping that stunning body? He even sheepishly flexed for me upon pantomimed request. All in all, if managed better than I did, an hour-long massage with Vlad could be worth the money. But someone please teach him basic words like “deeper” and “continue.”

I love Taylor. He is sexy (though short, which doesn’t bother me but is apparently objectionable to many here) and truly skilled. Nice guy, too. Only does outcalls. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30477/

Thanks!

I remember finding the massage scene in Living Out Loud, a 1998 movie in which Holly Hunter’s character gets an erotic massage from Eddie Cibrian, one of the hottest things ever. I think it was what prompted me to get my very first one. This says it’s the full clip but I don’t think the real thing cuts off there: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eKizWMb3QQ

And...?

Anyway, has someone else seen Anthony lately? Would like a solid recommendation before I plunk down $160. Thanks.

this guy is in Ptown for a month. Curious if anyone has seen him before. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/22947/ He’s been asked about before. No info though: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-allen-visiting-san-diego-based-in-palm-springs.137285/ Thanks.

I took @MartyB’s advice and hired Dixon. Wow. It felt less promising at the start because his set-up leaves something to be desired - the room is barely large enough for him to maneuver and the table is set with scruffy towels instead of sheets. But all that was forgotten quickly. Thank you, @MartyB

Hot body. And yet his ad says nothing about massage. So...wishful thinking?