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OMG, who are YOU to be judging anyone? You have NO idea what his vows were. Maybe he & his partner have never agreed to monogamy! And what about this "...in front of God..." comment? How do you know he even BELIEVES in a God. And, how in the world are the rest of us (from your statement, "This world is going bat crazy over doing whatever one wants and making the rest of society pay for it" paying for his life choices?? STIs are not from escorts, but rather FROM places like Grindr, where the STIs are coming from. Yet that's where you suggest he should be going. If you want him to reduce his risk of STIs, urging him to go to Grindr is the last place he should go. WTH? And just HOW are YOU paying for HIS choices? ("Why do gay men think they have the right to have their cake and eat it at everyone else expenses"?). Could you elaborate on this peculiar train of thought? I reject your judgmental and ironically inaccurate opinion here. Who are you to be so judgmental, really?

I wish we had more providers here on these message boards. One suggestion I have is for the section Ask An Escort be for escorts only to answer. I just feel that section should be for escorts. Too many of us clients mucking up the original intent of that section. Meaning, all of us can post a question but only providers can post answers. The only way to answer is to have a special login that only providers can get thru the Daddy admin. Some providers (many?) would prefer to be anonymous so they could answer anonymously or publicly. So, yes, a provider could have 2 logins to Ask An Escort, one to answer anonymously and the other to answer publicly. I think the anonymous login would be necessary cuz sometimes providers need to say what we as clients dont want to hear and providers prob want to keep their polite reputations clean. But a public login could also be used as advertising. Escorts could introduce themselves to all of us on these message boards. Just a suggestion. Love to all.

I've hired a many times. No escort has ever refused to first meet me in the lobby. Just my experience. But I'm a good client (except for the above/below limitations): I dont negotiate the price but pay what they ask (if within reason, and I know the market rates); I offer beforehand to pay all parking fees; I inform beforehand that I consider tipping important; and I ask him in advance what food/appetizers/drinks/booze they want ready for them when we get to my hotel room. I'd like to think I'm a gentleman, with safety concerns. And since I will NEVER give a first time session with an escort my hotel room number, the first escort that does refuse to meet me there but rather demands my room number is an escort I will quickly, but politely inform him to find another client. This is for SAFETY, guys. No exceptions, even for the well-reviewed ones. I meet escorts only in my hotel room, not their hotel. Vice stings love to set up their stings in a hotel room with their other police compatriots in an adjoining/nearby hotel room where they have their gear listening in, taping, and getting ready to jump in & arrest. It's much harder (and rarer) for sting operations to have a undercover policeman meet a client in clients hotel lobby not knowing where the hotel room is. I also dont give the name of my hotel till the day before. Just too little time for a Vice operation to set up shop. My strategy isnt foolproof but its helpful. Also, I use a burner phone assigned for escort hiring, not my regular cell phone (it's very cheap, btw) cuz people can track cell phones to the real person. And an email specifically set up for hiring communications only. Safety, guys, safety. Finally, some careful clients advocate not giving out their real name. I disagree. I always give out my real name: its Jesus Christ Incarnate, thank you.

Hi Lucas. I'm a board certified physician. I graduated from a top quartile US medical school and residency program (I dont say that to brag, but to assure you I'm no under-achiever & actually know what I'm talking about). I've practiced Medicine for years. I've personally worked directly with & come across many physician colleagues and neither myself nor any of my peers have ever asked for a deposit. You are simply wrong. It's not about trust, sir. This is Business. The restaurant gets paid AFTER the meal. The Accountant gets paid after doing the clients taxes. And the Barber. And the housekeeper. And the Uber driver. And the physician like myself (see above). The list goes on & on. Guess what: you are also on that list, too. You get paid AFTER services rendered, not before. I'm sorry you had to go thru this, Lucas. No one deserves to be treated this way. You write the conversation got "heated", so ask yourself, as a professional, what part did you contribute to this debacle? Please reflect on specifically what you said and how (if at all) it added to the tension of this encounter gone bad. Please reflect with deep self honesty. I'm a professionaland & I've had to go this exercise in my career and no, it's not fun, but its important for growth. Clearly you need some, um, professional growith, also. Um, what does that matter.....???? You sound really privileged, like you are demanding White Privilege. Just sounds bad all around. Like a pro-Trump supporter from the Alt-Right marching on Charlotesville. Please come to this forum and explain this statement cuz I'm sure you wouldn't want potential clients (like me) thinking you are a bigot. But I'm very open to a logical, non-racist explanation of your statement. Sorry man, but you cant rely on your clients for fiscal safety. Going out of town as an escort with all the extra expenditures that accrue are the risks YOU take as a BUSSINESSMAN. Trying to get clients to shoulder this risk will only get you a bad response (see this entire thread for an example), as you are learning. Wait, you wont trust us clients to pay but you expect us to trust that you a "man of his word"? We dont know you from Adam. Expecting us to believe/trust you on that is ridiculous and fantastical thinking on your part. Get over yourself, Mr Businessman. Guess what? I practice what I preach. I see a patient in my office and then bill accordingly and I sometimes DONT get paid, believe it or not. But it's part of my budget- I plan on a (small) percentage of unpaid bill's. It's called the Cost of Doing Business. Dude, take some business classes. No, you tarnished it yourself. From all you have said here, I know I'll never hire you. I NEVER pre-pay. Nor do my friends. No, it isn't. It's for clients, like me, to have a method and strategy to expose jerks and rough-trade who may harm us fiscally, emotionally or even physically. Are YOU one of those? I am fearful of the answer.

A true "professional" can keep an erection when asked. One to two experiences with not being able to top with his client (one would think) would instruct any real professional to be prepared next time and get Viagra (or Cialis or Levitra) and have handy when necessary. Age, body size, looks of the client has nothing to do with giving an escort a pass on maintaining an erection. If the escort has difficulty with a consistent erection, they shouldn't be in the business of prostitution (or at least not advertising their penis size or that they top). FOR THE PROVIDERS READING THIS: Viagra, although expensive here in the US, is quite cheap from a Canadian pharmacy. First, go to your primary care doctor get a prescription for Viagra. Simply tell him/her that although young and seemingly shouldn't have this problem, once the condom goes on you lose sensitivity and lose the erection. Physicians (like me) prescribe Viagra for this problem all the time. Then find an online Canadian pharmacy where you will set up an account, and scan and email your prescription. They will mail you the medication and you're set to perform within 15-30 minutes as the onset of action of Viagra is just about that time. Twenty four 50 mg pills costs $53.39. That's $2.23/pill (yes, I looked it up on the online pharmacy website). Small overhead cost given you are being paid between $200-$300/hr. Just like you, I'm a professional and I'm expected to have my tools, my skills, my fund of knowledge and compassion ready when I am standing before my patient. And I assure you that I'm ready and prepared to meet my patients needs. You be ready, too, when being paid to perform. Otherwise, I'm having a challenging time calling you a professional but rather a joker. Here is the link to one Canadian pharmacy I have sent my patients to (yes, I'm a physician). I have never had a patient report to me a bad experience with this pharmacy. https://www.northwestpharmacy.com ALL my love to the professional escorts out there. You are very much loved and appreciated.

With all due respect, please do not superimpose (your?) issues onto the rest of us. I assure you I am not homophobic in any way, having dealt with and resolved those issues many years ago thru hard work with a therapist. It is very possible to successfully address these painful internal issues. I should know because I have done it. Nevertheless, please don't think I am free from all other mental health issues. Strong mental health is a journey. I suspect I am not alone in this opinion. Much love, Josh

Yes, I have. And have communicated with him. I strongly suspect this guy is a prankster and/or going thru a drug induced psychosis. His answers at times are incongruent and odd. I strongly got the sense he was playing games during our communication. I fear safety issues alone with him. Proceed at your peril.

I had a decently long text message conversation with him trying to figure out if I should meet him. I decided not to hire him. He just isn't what he advertises. Despite what his ad says, he doesn't do anal. Nor oral. Even his Boyfriend Experience is unlike anything I think it should be. No where close. He's certainly not gay and prob not even Bi (that doesn't necessarily make a difference to me, but with him it would- I sense he has an ick factor in regard to same sex behavior). Despite what he advertises, he really only offers muscle worship. And when I discussed my concerns with him, I found him to be unreasonable and illogical. And a bit of a game player. He certainly is a stunning specimen of a man. But given what I learned, just not for me.

Well, you certainly are at least a good judge of your own character/abilities, because your self-professed lack of good judgement in others is a huge red flag. But lets think that through: these guys on SA probably are gonna be stronger, younger, bigger than you. They are needing money, sometimes despartely so. There are a lot of Crazies out there, and some of them are criminal. Those types are the ones who will do anything to save themselves from whatever predicament they are in. Maybe you should stick with well-vetted escorts who you can better trust? There are just too many scenarios from mild/inconvenient to catastrophic/lethal that you could be a victim to. Or at the very least consider some very robust strategies for personal safety. For example, tell a trusted friend what you are doing and who you are doing it with. And seriously consider letting the guys you meet know this. That will give any SA jerk pause to think who wishes to harm you if things don't go his way. To be sure, all of us need to be careful and leery of Danger but some of us are better judges of character than others. I was born and raised in a rough part of town. My Red Flag Indicator is well-honed. I have been known to spot thiefs, liars, and manipulators from afar. Even knowing that, I know I am at some risk, but your self-assessent is alarming. I wish you all the best. Josh

That's your problem, Mocha: you continue to collude with these no-show clowns. And you only hurt yourself. But if they no-showed even once, why would you give a second chance to affect your business/decrease your revenue stream/anger you? But you do it over and over? col·lude kəˈlo͞od/ verb come to a secret understanding for a harmful purpose; conspire. It is illegal and dangerous to text and drive. Dont do it. If you really are distracted while driving and hearing pings on your cell, just turn it off or put it Airplane mode. Then you might not be so angry and frustrated but rather, feel better and not have rant and rage like a maniac all the time, which would definitely make me feel better. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

No-shows are a chronic headache for all professionals, not just escorts. I should know. I'm a Primary Care physician. On any given day, no-shows account for a PCPs total daily booked appointments at a rate of 5-20%, depending on the demographics of the patient panel and geography. Yes, that's a daily no-show rate. My personal office no-show rate hovers around 7%. It used to frustrate me a lot more than it does now. At this point in my career, I have come to understand some people are simply disrespectful of others. And I have a much better strategy of managing no-shows then I did when I first started. I have a policy that 3 no-shows in <18 months (not 12 months) will have the professional relationship terminated and the patient needing to find a new physician. And if a new patient no-shows on their very first appointment, the staff are not allowed to make them another appointment. A no-show on the first appointment is that is all the evidence I need to know that the patient will be a hardship on my practice, and by extension, the health of my other patients in my panel who actually show up. Even if the patient calls to cancel but if its less than a 24 hr notice, it is still considered a no-show. The reason is, sometimes if there is <24 hr notice, that appointment spot can not be replaced by another patient as it sometimes impossible to logistically get another patient in his/her place. In this day and age of physician shortages, an unused appointment slot is a seriously unfortunate event which harms other patients. I have no desire or need to fill my panel with such disrespectful patients. It's not that they are disrespectful to me that is the issue, it's they are disrespectful to my other patients and prospective new patients who want to be seen but my staff have to say no to or put them off to a later date. My office staff has a large protocol to help diminish no-shows. First, when they make an appointment, they are informed of the no-show policy AND if they are established patients, how many no-shows they have accumulated (if any) in the past 18 months. When a patient hears they have 2 no-shows in the past 18 months, it help motivate them to show up next time, or at least give 24 hr notice. Patient's are called 2 days before to remind them. If we have an address, email reminders go out the day before to further remind. Letters go to each patient who no-shows offering concern over their health and a reminder of the no-show policy. If they have no-shows already documented, that is included in the letter. The letter is as professional, pleasant, but matter of fact as can be in such a letter as this. But we urgently suggest to patients to inform the office of a no-show even if it's less than 24 hrs because it might help them in the future. Is the patient rude to my staff (you might be surprised to hear how many patients are rude to office staff)? Do they always pay late or refuse to pay their co-pays/deductibles? Are they not getting better under my care due to their non-participation in the treatment plan? To many "yes'es" and I'm gonna terminate them. But if they have 3 no-shows but one of these was a call 2 hrs before the appointment to cancel (which is still a no-show) but are otherwise good patients (no yes'es to the above questions), I might delay termination... maybe, if they really ask for clemency and understand one more and they are gone. See, I'm not as mean as you think. By implementing this protocol, my no-show rate, although frustrating, is at a reasonable level. Without it I have seen a no-show percentage of near 20%. Why have I described in depth this office protocol? To suggest to all escorts to find and implement your own robust protocol for your business which can only help you. This should include accepting (as I have to do) that no professional can eliminate all no-shows. It's just a part of doing business. Suggestions To Escorts: 1) Get an address at least 3 days before the session. (Why wouldn't a client give you one?) 2) No blocked calls. 3) Insist on a Day-Of confirmation text/phone call. 4) Where possible, identify red-flags which alert you to a client with an increased risk of a no-show and come up with a strategy to navigate and diminish that risk. 5) Inform the client making an appointment that you are the consummate professional and will absolutely give him at the least a 24 hr cancellation call (or more) if an emergency comes up. But ask him to do the same and actually get a verbal agreement from him on this. Review with him that this is your livelihood and to respect this and your time by giving you the same courtesy. Be pleasant, matter of fact, and polite with this part of conversation, but be clear. Possibly by getting him to verbally agree to give you a cancellation call, he will commit to respectful behavior because now he doesn't want to let himself down by breaking his word to himself. I would love to hear other suggestions that escorts and clients are using/considering to use for this vexing problem. Hugs to all, Josh

Ok...um... I'm still lost, even after you explained yourself. My apologies.

I went to the medical literature. The second vaccination dose is 2-6 months after the first one. I'm very excited about this new vaccine. It appears much improved from the original. Folks, you really want to get this vaccine. Please go speak with your doctor about this because Zoster is awful. I'm a physician so I know from clinical experience. So does this next poster below. So sorry for your suffering, Tanman. Um, could you elaborate on your comment? Yes, I'm a physician but I don't know everything but I'm unaware of "hep" (You mean hepatitis? Which one?) having a relationship with these vaccines. And I did look at some medical literature to see if I could find a connection.

I just did do a second search on Vikingbuddy. I had done an original search prior to initiating this thread cuz I am at least somewhat independent and capable (or so I thought) of doing my own research. Yet, I found nothing in that first search. BUT my mistake was typing "Viking buddy"- two words separated by a space, which produced nothing. Just now when I repeated it as "Vikingbuddy", um, yah, I found stuff. Some alarming stuff. Thank you, forum! Live and learn... But has he matured and grown? Maybe he provides better services now? Anyone with recent experiences? Any experience at all?

Good morning gentlemen. Any scoop on this seemingly wonderful guy on RM? He has 3 reviews on RM but nothing on Daddys. ANY and all information appreciated. https://rentmen.eu/vikingbuddy Josh

Oh, I'm around. (Hi, all!) I just don't respond to foolish posts. Why feed the negativity? Exactly! Hope all the forum members are doing well. As we travel this Fall season that seems frought with so much sadness & tradgedy, gather Love & Hope and look forward towards the Light. (Get an extra session with an escort in. They are excellent with sharing Love and Hope) Josh

First, full disclosure: I'm a feminist. Completely. For example: do I believe that woman should get equal pay for equal jobs? Of course. Do I believe woman have the right to control their own bodies, including but not limited to the right to an abortion or even sex work as an adult. Of course. Did I vote for Hillary? Of course (I love HRC!). That notwithstanding, below is a link to a recent documentary by a feminist, the female filmmaker Cassie Jaye, on the "Men's Rights Movements". If you have never read nor heard an in depth discussion of what the Men's Rights Movement is about, this documentary, The Red Pill is an excellent start. Ms Jaye provides an articulate, intelligent, and an in depth exposition of this movement, a movement that is highly misunderstood, underreported, and frequently (and sadly) maligned. What's really sad is many men don't know enough about the Mens Rights Movement. I strongly suspect some of you in this forum would be impressed with what you see. And might change a few personal views on a the equality movement, for both sexes. I encourage all of you to see it. It's available online. And come back to us with your thoughts. Hugs, kisses, and protected sex to all, Josh PS: Special invites to the movie: Juan Vancouver Quotetheraven http://theredpillmovie.com

No offense but I call your statement IGNORANT. I didn't grow up in the 50s either. As for the sexual revolution, it didn't bring us AIDS and death, not using a condom did. So, yeah, you can keep your ignorance but I'll keep my condoms and the sexual revolution. As well as allowing my grown up and lovely mother to have a healthy sex life without any judgement or 9 year old like responses from me cuz she raised me right.

My story: I've chatted with him briefly. He was quite professional. Didn't hook up with him due to scheduling issues (mine, not his). Yes, I would love to see a review or real, bona-fide account of a meeting. I'm not saying this escorts is following the best business practices by not communicating with every prospective client . He's not. But I must admit the first thing I thought of when I read the above quoted statements is that as a client, I have always been the one to follow thru. I don't wait on an escort to contact me. I offer a specific evening (and time) and if he's available, cool. I do the pursuit cuz I suspect if I wanna meet him, so do others. I'm not gonna wait in line. I'm gonna jump to the front of the line. Waiting (semi) passively for an escort to contact me back is risky. Especially with an attractive escort that advertises that he "loves kissing", and maybe more importantly, advertises for only $200 for an in-call. 200 bucks is a great bargin. My suspicion (and obviously I don't know for sure) is he has some amount of a steady repeat client base. So he gets to a new city, has a lot of calls/texts cuz his rates are quite competitive (on top of a few repeat clients he is previously set up with) and goes with what he is capable of doing. So if he has one prospective client (say, Izaak from above) who Zach is supposed to call back in 2 days and hope that client is still interested vs a guy who calls him and says let's meet now. The "now" client is gonna get the escort. It's not the best business strategy in my opinion, but I honestly think it's cuz he fills his books and doesn't need to call back every new inquiries. Comments? Ok, that's interesting. May I ask what personal questions he was asking? I've spoken to him and didn't get those questions asked of me. Warmest regards, Josh

I discovered he managed the Las Vegas Adonis in 2014. Still trying to figure him out. He seems like a good guy... There is actually some reviews of him escorting- 2013. Even a video interview of him. But I think things have changed for him over the years as Big-n-Tall suggests. Anyone with information is also more than welcome to PM me.

Hey folks, Anyone know about this muscle stud in San Diego? https://rentmen.com/XavierMuscle Any help would be greatly appreciated. Josh

MscleLovr, Thank you so much for your comment. Its very illuminating. Could you tell us more about #1? What lead you to having to set boundaries? What were those boundaries? Was the boundary setting successful? Why was that relationship different in its need for boundary setting compared to the other 2 relationships? Now that you are experienced in this matter, what words of advice would you give someone considering such an arrangement? Do you have any suggestions to a "Daddy" in how to find a sugarbaby who is emotionally healthy? What are some red flags you discovered that you weren't aware of before? What would you do differently given if the chance to go back in time? What would you do exactly the same? Feel free to answer all, some or none of my questions. It's just refreshing to find a man experienced in this area and willing to be generous with sharing their story that others might benefit. Warmest regards. And thank you for what you have already shared. It's very helpful.

I must respectfully but adamantly object to your statement as it is simply wrong. STIs, including gonorrhea and chlamydia, do not always have a discharge from the penis. Indeed, an asymptotic infection- meaning the person feels fine and has no penile discharge- can commonly occur. This is readily found in the medical literature. And this makes logical sense. If a man is having burning in his penis, or having outright puss-like discharge coming out, he isnt feeling his most sexy. Rather than running to sex he is running to the physician. It's the people with NO symptoms that are infecting others because they dont know. Consider changing the sources of your healthcare advice. Be safe. Be informed. And be well. Warmest regards.

I'M IN LOVE!! (gets on bended knee) Kerry, will you MARRY ME? I'm rich. I live in a huge house. You will want for NOTHING. I promise. PS. I'll email you the pre-nup.

Ok, now that all the above is cleared up, here's THE REAL question for Kerry Slate: is he truly VERSATILE like the last review stated? I mean, THAT'S the real news here. I thot he was a top only. But versatile is a WHOLE OTHER PARTY!!! Kerry Slate: feel FREE to chime in here.