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+ Oliver reacted to jawjateck in Sugar Daddy? November 12, 2015

My arrangements were college boys with a built in ending. They would graduate (hopefully), move on with life, possibly re-locate, enter the work force, etc. I provided a set monthly stipend for a certain number of days/nights per month. No exclusivity. Two of them posted ads and were hired by other clients; they gave me scheduling priority. The other collegian saw no other clients (as far as I know); he was satisfied with the stipend.

These arrangements worked well because of the character of the young men, which I vetted through several meetings/hiring situations before terms were offered and accepted. All three of them went way beyond the minimum requirements in terms of satisfaction, scheduling, and number of meetings. Each ended amicably. They moved on to professional careers, and my interaction/communication with them ended.

It's a privilege to help aspirational young men.

+ Oliver reacted to jawjateck in Sugar Daddy? November 12, 2015

I'm not relationally-oriented. I'm a happy single guy, so it's not too hard for me to move on. I think they were more nervous about moving on. I was easy for them, that is, until they got those lucrative job offers.....and never looked back. HAHA! But I say good for them. I wish them the best.

I had an early test in my hiring career of whether I'm vulnerable to "falling in love". I hired a handsome sexy guy often. I was 35. He was 32. We really clicked. Got along sensually and socially. Spent many nights together. Enjoyed each other's company. Often went shopping/dining/outings together off the clock, and no, I didn't pay for everything. He eventually moved to San Fran and returned to the corporate world from which he took a break. While I missed the convenience and compatibility of our time together, I was not wounded. If I was ever going to be tempted to fall in love with one of these guys, it would have been him. It did not happen.

I'm free.........to have fun.

+ Oliver reacted to + stevenkesslar in Sugar Daddy? November 12, 2015

Jesus Christ, jawjateck. Once and for all, would you learn how to spell?

You really like helping young men who have a lot of perspiration.

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+ Oliver reacted to + stevenkesslar in Sugar Daddy? November 12, 2015

It's funny to think about "The Men Who Got Away." This is probably different for every escort - especially ones who have partners - but the same thing happens the other way around, at least for me. There was a client years ago who hired me several times that would meet every standard on the Gay Mr. Manners checklist. Mature. Intelligent. Thoughtful. Same age. Handsome. Successful. Muscular. Loaded with talents. Sexually exciting. Single. At the end of our first overnight, I asked him something like this .... "If you don't mind me asking, why aren't you out, and why aren't you dating?" He really didn't know how to answer the question. I think by the time I flew home I had a long email from him answering it, and saying nobody had ever asked the question. He hired me several more times. We never had the kind of relationship you describe, Jawja. But at least on a superficial level, I thought if there was ever a client to jump at, this is the one Central Casting would chose. I didn't jump, and within a year or so he was in love and married with another guy. Chalk up another one for the Steven Kesslar School Of Sexual Finishing - even if I am actually still very much a work in progress.

I have no regrets. I haven't kept in touch, but I suspect he doesn't regret his choices either. We all make our own beds, and sleep in them. Together, alone, or some of both.