I think you would benefit from listening to your initial reaction, especially in view of your family situation. I hope that that has settled. It would appear that this offer might roil the waters. I do understand the draw of a new experience (you have not lost that happy view), but, as Charlie said above, you will be held responsible for the content even though you have no control over it. And the escorting will come to light. Be comfortable with your decision. (And big hugs!)