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  1. My first time with a professional: 18. When I was in my teens living in Kansas City in the mid 1970s, there was an ad in The Advocate that always caught my eye (from a November 1976 issue of The Advocate):

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    When I had just turned 18, I visited New York for the first time to go to a comic-book convention and had a room in the Con hotel, which was not far from MSG. When I had a free night, I called the escort and arranged for him to come to me. I'm not sure what I was expecting from the ad, but it wasn't that he would show up in a nearly full-length fur coat. He was very attractive, but I think my surprise showed on my face, as he explained he wore it to dress up so hotel security wouldn't hassle him. Still, his appearance threw me, which, combined with my first hiring experience, essentially froze me. I didn't want to hurt his feelings, and went through the motions but just wanted to get the encounter over. He came, but I didn't. I believe the experience was $50 plus $20 tip.

     

    My first time paying? When I was about 16 and paid a neighborhood boy a bit younger than me to allow me to spank him. We kept up that arrangement on and off for a few years, expanding it into other activities as well.

  2. Collegedom sounds like he's a hot guy and is willing to really set an ass on fire. Unfortunately he disappeared from this board and doesn't have a listing on RM.

     

    I miss Lief/Eric. He wasn't a very hard spanker but was still fun. Amazing apartment dungeon for his age and a VERY amazing cock, has to be one of the best hung escorts I've ever been with. I was watching his video he did last week and that's what made me think of him. Wish he would have done scenes as a dom instead of a sub. Andreas in LA who still advertised on the massage board was really hot and into spanking but don't think he's escorts anymore.

     

    Sirkhan in LA is an escort I want to hire for kink. I first started talking to him on Recon and he sounds like he'll give the kind of discipline I want to get.

     

    Spankthishookups, recon and spankingtube are other good sites to find guys into this if you are looking to play for free and I've met a couple hot guys there. Met a guy on spankingtube a couple months ago when I was in Toronto that gave me the best one I've had in a long time.

     

    I texted COLLEGEDOM and suggested he check in here. Which video of Lief/Eric?

     

    BTW, Have you checked out the Whappz app? They organized and hosted the MM Palm Springs spanking event a few weeks ago.

  3. When I hire I like to play pretty intense and getting spanked HARD is a big fetish of mine. I used to play with this hot young dom Leef/Eric who had an amazing playroom in Santa Monica but unfortunately he just deleted his ad one day. Use to also play with a pro dom in Chicago who retired (even though he was only 30 and still looked great).

     

    Wish I could find hard spankers in Chicago and LA and NYC when I travel to those cities. Or better yet Detroit.

     

    A couple other words you can run on rent men are bdsm and dungeon.

     

    I seem to have a lot of luck finding escorts into spanking hard in London. If you are into it and ever in London look up masteraaron. He is a true sadist.

     

    I can understand why an escort wouldn't want to get spanked hard or would want a hefty fee if they did. When I play I like my ass marked for at least a week and if an escort got it the way I like to get it they would be out of work for a good week.

     

    I suggest COLLEGEDOM. He's exactly what you're looking for, and more focused on spanking than Lief/Eric was (who I did like also).

  4. If there's not a photo or video reference, or something in their handle or persona or a specific mention in the "About" (other than as part of a grocery list), expect to be disappointed. There are some strong possibilities: One San Diego escort, Princekawaii, for example, lists in his about section: "I love spanking sessions ." Lucas_Knight in Atlanta mentions "Spanking aficionado" and has photos where he's displaying red handprints. ShermanMaus used to run a photo of him bent over something with a frat paddle resting on his back with the legend "Fetish: Spanking."

     

    There are specific apps or sites (e.g., the relatively new Whapzz app or spankthishookups.com) that you may wish to check out.

     

    In L.A., two professional spankers, Young Disciplinarian and Dr. Don, don't advertise on Rentmen sites. Justin Baylor has been into getting spanked, but isn't running any ads currently.

     

    Don't rely on spanking being listed in the "I am into:" section, though you can use the omission from that list to weed out candidates.

     

    Look also for providers with dungeons or dedicated play areas, and search also for "paddle" or variations and/or "impact" or "impact play."

  5. I was trying to pin point the dates of the trip for other reasons and got curious about the ad. I bought on eBay a copy of the advocate that was on the stands when I was there and found the ad and then scanned it.

     

    One thing that stands out from the experience is that he showed up in a fur coat, which was not what I had been expecting. He explained it was to keep hotel security from stopping or harassing him.

     

    I guess I should post a review, but don't know if 43 years is too long to have waited.

     

    Wasn't with my family. I was there essentially on my own: I accompanied a local store owner for whom I worked part time to a comic convention being held at a hotel near MSG.

  6. I was trying to pin point the dates of the trip for other reasons and got curious about the ad. I bought on eBay a copy of the advocate that was on the stands when I was there and found the ad and then scanned it.

     

    One thing that stands out from the experience is that he showed up in a fur coat, which was not what I had been expecting. He explained it was to keep hotel security from stopping or harassing him.

     

    I guess I should post a review, but don't know if 43 years is too long to have waited.

     

    Wasn't with my family. I was there essentially on my own: I accompanied a local store owner for whom I worked part time to a comic convention being held at a hotel near MSG.

  7. Just curious, @kent, did you save the clipping of that ad from the time you hired him? I have a whole story running in my head now - you a teenage Kansas boy secretly finding his ad and planning to sneak away from your family during your first NYC trip.... etc.

     

    I'd love to hear the story :p

    I was trying to pin point the dates of the trip for other reasons and got curious about the ad. I bought on eBay a copy of the advocate that was on the stands when I was there and found the ad and then scanned it.

     

    One thing that stands out from the experience is that he showed up in a fur coat, which was not what I had been expecting. He explained it was to keep hotel security from stopping or harassing him.

     

    I guess I should post a review, but don't know if 43 years is too long to have waited.

  8. I met a guy in Vegas. We had a great time together. Two days later he asked me for a loan against our next meeting. Unbelievable. I didn’t respond.

    I wouldn't have ghosted him, just said no. Both sides in these relationships have a bit of "it never hurts to ask and you won't get it unless you ask." The buyers may ask for things that trigger gag reflexes by suggestion alone or are degrading or even painful, and the vendors may push the envelope re compensation. It's a negotiation and either side is free simply to decline the particular opportunity.

  9. Hmmmmm. Band aides on the wound. You feel bad about yourself. The most liberating feeling on earth is the feeling of being in control of yourself... hence self esteem and confidence.

     

    For your own health and well being, join a gym, eat for your health, join support groups with people sharing the same feelings and most importantly... have fun! Everyone loves an underdog that is making something positive about themselves.

     

    Take pictures...now. set up small goals that you can accomplish and again have fun! When you achieve these goals take more pictures. Set up more goals. There is synergy within positive momentum.

     

    Then when you hire one of these hot muscle phenoms, share your pictures, goals and future desires. I can almost guarantee the good ones will feel the positive energy and that in itself (especially with the straight ones) will excite them into a great session. Many will offer advice and I bet many will follow up with you and WANT to have a session just to see your progress.

     

    Nothing in life is more energetic than energy!

     

    Take control of yourself, love yourself and you will have no problem with a hire given he is a decent human being that also has goals, insecurities etc.

     

    Take the first step. We all want you to succeed and again....make this fun!!

     

    God bless!!

     

    This is an inappropriate, insensitive, tactless, self-centered response. I'd suggest joining a group that can help you with sensitivity and ego issues. Set up small goals such as reading the room and being sensitive to others' concerns. Learn no to imply that others need to change to match your perceptions. There is synergy within positive momentum. Take the first step. We all want you to succeed and not post responses like this again.

  10. But wasn't the OP trying to avoid the police?

    The police would probably be interested in someone impersonating a LEO to shake people down without needing to drag the OP into things further. The complaint could even be done anonymously, depending on the jurisdiction, although that would preclude charge based on OP's own incident.

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