Tonyko

SCORTS ARE NOT E.N.T'S THERAPISTS DENTISTS OR LAWYERS ETC, THOUGH LOSS OF THEIR TIME "CAN" BUT RARELY DOES COST THEM ACTUAL $$$ MUCH AS THEY DECRY IT DOES, THE WHOLE LINE OF "I BEEN BURNT CLIENTS FLAKE I PASSED UP A GIG YADA YADA THAT'S WHY I NEED A DEPOSIT PRIOR TO MEETING OR EVEN FULL PAYMENT ETC ETC DOESN'T FLY WITH ME AND NEVER WILL. 99% OF THE TIME IT'S A CLIENT WHO AGREES TO THAT DEAL WHO GETS BURNT. IF YOU'RE SO JONES-ING FOR A OUT OF TOWN SCORT THAT INVOLVES PLOPPING DOWN AIRFARE YOU'VE GOTTA LOOK AT IT LIKE PLOPPING YOUR BUTT DOWN AT A SLOT MACHINE IN VEGAS.

Well speaking as a Manhattanite SO may ppl are out of work here ESPECIALLY in the flexible hour jobs like waiter bartender club worker dancer stripper and retail as well (outdoor dining only works if you can get a permit where you prev didn't have one AND of course your restaurant must be ground floor, many are not, and stores are limiting the # of ppl allowed in at any time so they only need limited staff) so many working boys have lost their real world jobs and are relying full time on scorting. AND many boys who never did it before are turning to it to eat and pay rent. (I know one who was in a Broadway show in March who is now seeing a few select men under the radar) And we are on the uptick again here, esp in other Boroughs where many boys live bc it's cheaper. Unlike HIV and other STDS where a current test may mean something and safe sex practices can also keep you safe, there is NO way to really be sure who has this thing and there is NO such thing as safe intimate contact with something airborne. I have not hired since this began and won't won't be hiring anytime soon. Pains me but for me it's the way it must be.

Sorry to report he broke up with the fiance and left for work down South early this year. I PRAY he will return, guys like this are hard to find! He has roots here so anything's poss.

I think you're nuts to hire here now, if that pisses off anyone off so be it. Of course we want to support EVERYONE who's livelihood has been affected or lost by this, and YES obviously scorts are not eligible for UE benefits or the covid emergency benefits (that run out end of this mo btw) if escorting is all they do, but MANY ppl are in the same boat. Scorts tend to be YOUNG (20's 30's) and I can tell you bc I LIVE here; that age bracket is NOT particularly responsible, I see it, first hand, who's standing outside open air bars or on the street no social distance no masks etc etal as if nothing is wrong, and we need only look at Fire Island last weekend (where I share a place and decided to SKIP going this summer) to see these boys packed together partying on the beach in the Palace pool etc. (buds said I was being overly cautious, they don't seem to grasp that even if we stay away from the party scene, we're STILL passing these boys on 3ft wide walkways still shopping at the only market with them side by side still being served by them for take-out etc etc) Young guys are the largest A-SYMPTOMATIC group. They feel fine. A scort being your long time regular hire means no more than him being your cousin of BFF or anyone else you don't cohabitant with.. There is NO way to be CERTAIN who can give it to you. Saying "I'm Neg" doesn't mean what it did for HIV, covid and antibody tests are iffy, I have friends who've changed one day to the next, then back again. And Unlike HIV, this IS easy to get. There's no safe sex for this. Someone TALKING to you can spread it. Be safe! Jerk off! Take the $$$ you'd spend to hire and spend it on Paysites. Wait it out. That's my advice.

This wasn't an obit it was a death notice about the father his job or former job in (as I'm sure you know what Country) I'll see if the friend who showed me can send to me it was a while ago. The ONLY reason I even remember is bc I was so surprised I'd had the order wrong and it was also where I first read where they were born etc. (and this mentioned no spouses)

Yes I've seen this before. But it's NOT what I saw in an (unrelated to their careers of course) newspaper article announcing the death of their father. (again, unrelated to THEM, just an ordinary Death notice in a local paper listing surviving sons and ages) HAL was oldest and first. (using his real name of course)

Hmmm. That's NOT what I read when someone showed me (w/o sharing personal info here) an obituary of their Father where their names and ages were listed (again their real names which paired with their social media at the time showed who was who) and Hal was the oldest. (which surprised me since I'd always thought it was Vince. Was it wrong??

I had "heard" that Shane and Hal could get blown for the right amount of $$$, but I couldn't confirm, which is why I said they never scorted "publicly" as in advertised nationally like Vince did. Hal would've been my first choice of the 3 :-)

Vince the middle brother went first, followed by Hal the oldest, then Shane. They only made one actual porn scene together all three doing a young guy in a motel, unfortunately it's VERY badly dubbed.

No Hal never did, nor Shane, only Vince. (I met Vince at a pool party in P Springs once in 90's nice guy beautiful thick body, but he had a lot of acne on his cheeks) Hal may have been listed along with others in the old David Forrest fake ads where he'd just put up any star's pix saying you can hire them if you pay him etc) but he never scorted at least publicly) All three are married now all to very plain looking women :-)

Heartbreaking :-( Puts complaining about no haircuts or gym into perspective.

Was just a lil travel case gift night before the SouthEastAsia trip. Thankfully he's back and Corona-free :-)

Ugh it was me. (my joint on Commerce closed so I switched) Can't I go ANYWHERE without people staring???

Didn't see the other thread, and I did of course know his name lol THIS is slang for something that's known and special, like if someone gives a great speech or has a great comeback line you just say THIS guy with the pic etc I even remember in HS seeing in TV guide they were airing an old Columbo with him which oc I watched where to my joy he played a shirtless gym fanatic.

R.I.P THIS guy, whom I discovered only in 70's reruns as my Grandfather watched, which was my pre-pubescent discovery of what excited me:rolleyes: 84 years old.

JUST happened here, The "won't" name the gay dating app, but think we all have pretty good idea. Glad everyone here's getting more savvy and cautious. https://nypost.com/2020/01/31/cops-arrest-24-year-old-in-connection-to-upper-east-side-murder/ PS: I thought using the letters "GEN" in Grindr profile now gets it flagged and removed. No??

I've always thought of these kind of guys as adorable wild animals, you bring them inside and feed them but the environment is unnatural to them and they don't want to be there and minute you stop feeding them they bite youo_O THAT being said I can't believe how good you were to him and how much $$$ you spent on him! * Have you ever considered adoption? Perhaps a 40-something? Sandy blonde hair, green eyes, gym bod? Small and compact easily fits in a carry-on? Think about it:)

I was with TB just a few hours before his flight, I left privately worried BUT showing that serves no purpose Trust me I EASILY could've been the chick on the train platform waving the hanky as the guy goes off to war, but I man'd up lol. And we all know nothing can happen to TB you could drop him in a volcano and he'll find a way to climb out. (AND meet a fan along the climb who'll help) I've no doubt he'll be fine:cool:

Yes, my half Jew side says that's what he means, we say he "he laid/sat/stood etc there like a lox"

Sorry, but since I TOOK these never published photos MYSELF it's natural I'd take offense. (and sorry again but the very use of the term Old Coots makes what you said somewhat of an oxymoron:rolleyes:

OMG SORRY MY HUMBLE APOLOGIES

Well then I may be of a diff generation with a diff perspective than others here. (still being in my 40's ) I don't see grumpy in a SMILE. But I'll just accept to some here he may look like a boy they'd yell "get off my lawn" to.

LOL SERIOUSLY?? REALLLLLLLY??? He's beautiful is this pic that day! You may personally prefer the skinny tweeked twink he may have been when you had him, BUT sorry... THIS is a beautiful man. I KNOW I'm not the only one who thinks that

He's now an unrecognizable very overweight prison guard in Ks and as someone who knew him I'LL JUST SAY prolly better off forgotten:rolleyes: ("physically" (only) VERY beautiful in his prime) He did a shoot (stills only) at a friend's house in Hollywd Hills and was breath-taking to look at, TRULY!! Personality and priv life, another story. *I took this that day with my digital cam.

When he stayed with and told my friend this it was a while before '04. And I watched that scene and to be honest I didn't see any assault, if you listen he's begging to touch himself so he can cum which is what Lucas keeps saying no to, and his painful cries seem to be over trying not to cum hands free etc. At least that's what I gleaned from it. No?