I have not purchased any videos (yet), so making a purchase does not seem to be a prerequisite for the "assistance" in arranging a meet-up. The response from Flex4Me to my inquiry about a meet-up with Mr. X was prompt and at least had the appearance of some authenticity given that there was an answer to my question about kissing. I does seem odd that what I assume is a Europe-based handler is involved since Mr. X lives here in the U.S.
Mr. X is on Facebook and I have messaged him there with a couple compliments on previews of his Flex4Me videos which are posted on YouTube. Very brief replies from him on that. Not sure, however, that I should use Facebook as a way to raise the question of a meet-up.
The twists and turns do get interesting, don't they.