rocky

I disagree, Key West is no longer the place to go. So you've been pointed to the only place to stay, Island House that now has a monopoly on gay choices since that's the only place to go in Key West. The bars have gone, it isn't the same, go west my friend, go west

not if you look at your comments

Glad you're not in to daddy's , I obviously wouldn't want you close to me and I smell good

Now, I'm one of those if I set something up and we say confirm I don't want to reconfirm the night before, the day of the hour of which I have had happened and told, "well you didn't confirm." Yes I did, I set up the appointment. I don't keep my phone with me 24/7 nor should I have to.

Does it really matter what forum it should be. A person has asked for some advice, that's all that should matter.

I have thoroughly been happy with the responses and thank you. Me, not sure it helps. Do I do a gay cruise or not, do I do a bear cruise or not. I have been on straight cruises and had some strange connections but at my age, I want to be me. But being a pudgy guy, that isn't so easy. Thanks

But I guess I should clarify; I was looking at gay bear "chub" type cruises, my fault.

And I accept that but don't put yourself out there was open for all and all are welcome when you know it's the hot young studs they're looking for.

I know Atlantis and some others but are there really any good gay cruises for the heavier set gay guys who enjoy being around better built guys. I've seen the ads, but also saw some not so good reviews. I'm really interested in going on a gay cruise that welcomes not only bears but just big fat older guys who enjoy cruising for younger better shaped guys. There I said it!

My first experience and stupid but I was from a rural upstate NY area, nearly 30 years ago in Washington DC, the park near P Street Station with a hustler I hooked up with at P Street Station. Only jacked each other off but in the park, in the dark..

Thanks, actually the major issue was at Bourbon Pub or whatever it's called. Not a good experience. I know areas can be rough but I guess I was a bit gullable and took faith in people there. Anyhow, haven't been back since 2008.

I've had such bad experience in New Orleans that include a robbery, mugging, etc that started in a gay bar that I've become suspicious of any safe fun in NO.

I love it and often have been brought in but enjoy seeing young guys, as I'm an old 65 year old, go at it and go at it hard.

Well from a non gym person but someone who is very in to being sure that my "fat" body is well cleaned, I feel underwear everyday and more often if there's a chance I might be going out somewhere that cruising is involved. Maybe my mother made me do it, "always wear clean underwear you never know when you might get in to an accident." never knew what that meant but remember it

I'm the last of a dying breed I guess. Judge me if you wish. When you make a commitment at marriage, which some of you have, an open relationship to me nulls that marriage and is meaningless and a non commitment to your partner whether they agree or not. I feel the same way with hetero marriages. I wouldn't want to have my brother in law messing around on my sister. Same with partnerships. But having a relatiionship is a non binding commitment meaning you just want to mess around and don't want to remain commited to the person you are with.

I must be one of the rare ones. Not only do I go out but seek out wherever I go the gay bars. I like to be around people that I'm comfortable with, can be my non closeted self, and maybe find some hustlers. May be out dated but that's me. Was recently in Provincetown and while I had fun the cruise scene and bar scene not the same. So, as long as I'm still breathing air I'll be looking for the gay bars.

You bring up a very good subject for conversation and I'm not sure where I would go with your question. So, let's day Bill Cosby, a hero to many, a star to many, a person who gave money to many..OK, so do we give them a pass or "erasure"; if it was my daughter or person I know who had been a part of his sex acts, documented first, nope. I don't care. Spacey, same thing. But then again you have people like Travolta and others who have gotten away for such things for years, what are we to do?

But let's bring him back so we can be entertained even though he's been sexually abusive, that's the spirit

Been going many years but no luck really getting in touch with some fun guys/escorts. Anyone have any suggestions, will be there beginning of August. thanks

I agree. Seeing young men where I am I get my fair share of "gee if I don't get so much money they will take my car away, or I can't afford gas or my cell phone will be turned off"; nope it's a scam

I agree and never sure what is legit or not anymore. Everyone is "go fund me" when they don't have enough money for something

I'm probably $30k per year too...

I see a regular almost every week, from out of town, for almost 20 years. Our relationship has changed, my fault, from very sexual, sensual, to companionship which isn't bad, but I also enjoy the sexual/sensual. I'm a bad person I guess, I enjoy the younger but also like the friendship. There are times I say, hell with money get me anything I can, then say, quiet down, give me someone to cuddle with.

I love seeing these notes as I've had similar experience but alas, let's face it, we are dreaming or hoping. I just had a cable guy in my place for 2 hours, hot as hell but I knew he wasn't one I would say, hey take your strap off and let's have sex. Come on, we look we dream, it ain't happening

Yes, me too. I enjoy that