I understand that platforms need to protect themselves and enforce their policies, and I respect that. What I don’t understand is the complete lack of communication or any meaningful path to appeal.
If someone has invested a significant amount of money into the platform over the years and genuinely wants to come back, it seems like there should be some type of second-chance process. Why offer an undelete request if every request is denied without any explanation? At the very least, telling someone why they’re ineligible would provide some closure.
This business is built on relationships. Providers don’t always meet every client’s expectations, especially when requests involve different boundaries, preferences, or fetishes. That doesn’t automatically make someone a bad provider. I’ve always considered myself a professional who treated clients well, which is why this has been so surprising and frustrating.
What makes it even harder is knowing the amount of time and effort that went into building my profile. My original account was getting close to a million views when I first got into the industry, and by now each account probably would have surpassed that. That’s years of work, reputation, reviews, and visibility gone with no explanation and no real opportunity to make things right.
It’s also frustrating when it appears that some providers are able to have multiple accounts or continue using the platform while others seem to be permanently locked out. Maybe there’s an explanation for that that I don’t know, but from the outside it feels inconsistent. That’s what makes the whole situation so confusing.
At the end of the day, it’s less about disagreeing with the decision and more about wanting transparency, consistency, and a fair opportunity to appeal.