Your experience sounds about like what I'd expect. Thanks for sharing. He's plastered like 100 photos of himself at his bodybuilding peak. Then he seems to get offended or be terminally skeptical that a man would take his obvious bait.
In my case he tried to gaslight me. When I sent a text "Not Cool" to his standing me up, he replied that he'd texted me the day before our planned get together and I never replied. There was no such text. I can't think why he went to such efforts to portray himself as a "good" guy and me the flaky one, but I wasn't born yesterday.
