I like the stretchy ones that have a ball tugger built in. If I want the extra tug, I add an adjustable snap-on weighted leather band, which can get pinchy on its own. The stretchy material that makes for comfort and easy on/off is compatible only with water- based lube, tho. Using oil-based or silicone-based will break them down pretty quick. Very few over-the-counter rings are 100% platinum silicone which stand up to the full range.
Steel and cheap firm latex rubber (like o-ring gaskets) hold up longest, easiest to clean. Rubber won't set off TSA scanner if one likes to fly accessorized.
I love it when a provider wears one.
This. 100%.
I like the feel of a heavy steel ring, but like you, it tends to make me cum very quickly when wearing it.
I need to get used to the feeling of it on a more regular basis to numb myself out to it a bit.
Wear it to the gym, etc. Not just for when I'm going to fuck.