Will Do

Well I was looking at both profiles for a potential muscle worship session.
I just thought the arm muscles and chest and abs looked so similar that something was off but I chose Mike because he was based in NYC.
Mr Masters was very professional and polite in his response to my email which he answered quite quickly as well.
Just told me he'd rather see me in NYC as he said an out call to Jersey would cost too much. I decided on another muscle guy who happily came to me and it was a spectacular session!

As disturbing as that is to read on an ad in late 2015, I actually appreciate the honesty. In years past, some on this board have defended not only the right of working guys to have such racially exclusionary policies, but also the morality of omitting it from ads, thus leaving a potential client at the mercy of being rejected on sight should the escort have failed to discern the client's race or ethnicity before an initial appointment. I appreciate my racism upfront, so I can plan around it, thank you.

THIS...One more time

 
NOW THIS...One more time
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Nighty night all....

Let me just remind you I suggested that Let's just move on yesterday.
 
This dead horse is a damn bloody mess of pulp.

I'm MOVIN ON......
 
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So no one has responded to the elephant in the room. Next time I see a client asking for a twink, a Black guy, an Asian, a hairy guy or one of the many other wants they have I'll be sure to post that they're racist and should hang their heads in shame - cause guess what - all of these are attributes that a person can't change. I've known enough escorts who have been hurt badly by clients calling them fat, ugly and other mean spirited names. Most of the times their opinion wasn't even asked for, it's more like a person posting if anyone knows anything about a specific escort and having to endure a bunch of posts about why that escort is too inked, old, young, whatever. By the way Dakota, welcome to the board. You've certainly entered with a bang.

I'm Sorry Tru, and while I can never disagree with your well worded and presented logic here, even putting SEX aside as you say, this is REAL life and the truth is that often one's man's beliefs and words will be another man's Pain. It will always be that way and unfortunately we will not change that. And to be clear, the ONLY reason my focus was on SEX was because the discussion centered on an ESCORT not wanting to be sexual with a client of color. It was not about a restaurant refusing to serve same person, or a hospital refusing to treat him. It was about an ESCORT refusing sex based on race. To me, he has every right to do that. His physical body is involved. Its his choice whom he wants to give it to, and prospective clients WERE advised in his Ad. Now, if other people were emotionally "hurt" by his words, that is sad and unfortunate, but its something they must come to terms with.. What a beautiful world it would be if Everything was good for Everybody, but it Sho Ain't.... While members here want to jump on a bandwagon and make comparisons between an escort refusing people of color, and businesses refusing service to them, the comparisons are not apples to apples... and for me, that's just stretching to make a point... I am sure Dakota HAS thought about the impact his decisions have on his "bottom line", and he is obviously OK with that too. It seems the prospective clients that wont hire him because of his beliefs are the ones bent out of shape, possibly because of the loss of experiencing HIM ? EACH person needs to handle their own shit in situations such as these. Its OK to be a bit selfish and self-serving.. Whether Dakota is racist or not is NONE of my fucking business. We are each in control of ourselves; if we choose not to hire him, we dont and move along, but we have no right to tell OTHERS how to behave. That's the real injustice here.. Is it discrimination ? HELL YES, and I DONT condone that, but lets keep the issue at hand in perspective and not try to fit it into every other social and moral issue that exists in the world. As the saying goes "opinions are like Assholes, everybody has one". I have no beef with anyone here regarding this topic, but perhaps MY asshole is just a bit bigger and oddly shaped ?
 
And PLEASE guys, stop with the pvt hate mail calling me ignorant and racist, and wishing me dead. If you have a comment, make it publicly and not in the cowardly way.

Ok, my friend, you are stuck on SEX. Just bc you choose to believe this forum should be all about dick and escorts, it doesn't make it so. That aspect is fun, but frankly, it gets tedious after a while. My observation is that your heels have dug into "this forum is all about sex." The forum has changed - whether you like it or not. Could you give me the benefit of suspending the sex & race cards in this thread for a second here and think about two other words instead? The words are intent & impact.
 
I'm going to choose to believe that Dakota had the best of intentions by frankly & honestly stating his preference to not be contacted by Black clients. Maybe his intent was to be transparent, save himself & clients awkwardness based on whatever experience, preference, bias he may have. Yes, it could be that Dakota is a racist, but let's not make negative assumptions, and instead focus on the impact of his exclusionary statement: No Black guys please.
 
Man, that statement stings. It evokes so many memories when I've seen women, LGBT, and other minorities be bypassed for services or recognition bc of who they are. Man, that statement hurts bc I've seen white men be shunned and made scapegoats for systematic & institutional racism in America. Man, that statement has negative impact on me & others bc it is a bitter reminder of how uncivil yet negatively PC we've become in our good country. JJK...none of what I said has to do with sex. Unbeknownst to Dakota, his statement awakens pain, shame, anger, fear, grandstanding, and so much more.
 
I'm going to choose to believe what Dakota doesn't realize is the painful impact his statement has on the entire client base - not just on Black clients. His overt statement hurts (in different levels of pain) the very client base he is trying to appeal to. Consciously and subconsciously, the impact of his exclusionary statement will plague the clients and the cool experience Dakota is trying to create. This is not about who you choose to sleep with, this is about the enormous emotional impact language and words have. Let's not undermine that.
 
Now, @Dakota, I don't want you to reconsider your biases or preferences - that's your baggage to deal with. I do hope you reconsider the pain and impact you are (perhaps unknowingly) creating on many of us who would be prospects. Your statement (no black guys please) hurts. I choose to believe that was not your intent, but that's the impact. Give it some thought. Respectfully, -TR

As a service provider right of refusal is a given. Why a provider sets limits is his domain. May it lose him income, maybe. Better to be up front rather than lose potential income by booking and then refusing. JMO

I appreciate it I enjoy reading your responses and totally understand what you mean

No not at you. At all the negative comments directed AT him for his choices. These people need to just let it fucking Go.

"Acceptance" of a person has a much broader definition.... I dont understand WHY you people dont get it. You can accept a person, be ok with them politically, socially, spiritually etc, but you just may not want to be physically intimate with them. Just because you ACCEPT a person shouldnt make it Mandatory for you to want SEX with them. And that's the fuckin bottom line here. And this has absolutely nothing to do with being GAY. Being GAY doesnt mean that you fuck EVERYTHING that lives and breathes. Stop telling people where they should stick their dicks.....!

In the other thread on this very same topic about the client that showed up at the escorts door, only to have the escort tell him he does not usuallyn engage black clients because they are always troublesome for him, BUT he will go thru will the meet up because the client didnt sound American, You all dumped on the escort and criticized him for not putting his preferences in his ad. But here we are with an escort that did put in preferences in his ad, and your panties are still in a twist or the mere reason he doesnt want intimacy with men of color. Get over it already guys. Anybody could and should have sex ONLY with those they want to, and your criticisms of that are just bullshit. Leave the guys alone. Its their lives and their bodies. I find it ridiculous that Anyone should have Anything to say about how a person uses their body. Enough.!

LOL.
 
Appreciated this silly moment in an intense back and forth. Thanks Will.
 
Dakota, like several others I give you credit for reading this stuff, chilling and not responding defensively. I do hope one of your take-aways is to see just how POWERFUL words can be, in this case your words! I think that's because they trigger feelings and memories. Maybe you didn't intend to hurt feelings, just state a preference openly and honestly. In your ad, you describe yourself as a nice guy and I give you that benefit of the doubt. But in a country where there is as much racism as here, words can hurt even when that's not the intent.
 
Sorry if this sounds sort of parental. You haven't asked for advice -- who the hell am I to offer it, right? I get that. This is just a hope that you think about your words as you go about your business because my gut feel is that you truly are a nice guy.
 
Now I'm going to take Will's advice here and transition to another thread!

Okay, gents.
 
Why don't we just be done here?
 
SimplyAdam's over on another thread asking what we'd like to see in a new photo shoot.
 
Run look and offer the 2 cents there.

Oh good God!
 
I think a lot of us (I included) participating in this thread have put Dakota through the proverbial ringer the past few days.
 
Why not let's give him a break?
 
He just joined this forum community yesterday and it certainly (from my experience) can be damned overwhelming trying to dodge the shit-slinging whether you're a provider or a buyer who might have miss-stepped (in some folks' eyes.)

Where/how did you find MY picture??????

You obviously missed my point. While you might think you've just been fucked by your attorney when you see his bill, he can pick his clients based on the case. Given the type of work escorts do, I don't have a problem with any of them refusing to take me as a client if we're not a good fit. And by good fit, I include age, weight, race, etc.

Dakota, I gotta give you props.
 
You are participating in the thread without being defensive or for that matter defending yourself which quite frankly is a refreshing change on this board. I don't agree with your stance on excluding a race and I wish we did not live in a world where that even was an issue but I do have to applaud you for not getting down into the mud and fighting with everybody on here as seems to be par for the course with some of the pros. I think you are smart not to start defending yourself to every comment made about you. Follow the likes of Mr. Slater and Juan Vancouver on the board and always be professional and I think you will enjoy being on here. I am hoping that your race preference is just a sex preference and not an overall preference...welcome to the board and best of luck to you.

Ummmmm.... I'm not Dunkin Donuts lol I'm just a guy.

Wow! First of all I gotta give it to Dakota for sticking up for himself on here. Second, I think the comparison of an escort's services to those of a lunch counter shows a lack of respect for the escorts providing the services. They provide a very personal, customized service. Lawyers and accountants provide personal services too and they can pick and choose who they would represent or who's taxes they would do. I guess all you guys bashing Dakota would or have dated another black/Asian/Latino/Hispanic guy even if you weren't attracted to them. You're all just so politically correct that you don't have preferences in who/what you find attractive.
 
Dakota is a nice guy. As much as I'd like to keep him all to myself, he does provide an excellent experience. As far as nobody looking like client B contacting him, I'll say I look a lot more like client b than client a and we still had a great time.

why does he have to


BTW nobody has ever looked like client B that contacted me. Also why does he gotta be overweight lol

I should hire you to do my public relations

though most of us feel obligated to act appropriately outraged at Dakota's policy, he certainly has the right to choose who he'll meet with.....admittedly, the policy could be worded differently, I guess
 
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