Unfortunately, it's the lifestyle and some simply take it for granted a steady income by regulars instead of keeping their work ethic.
In some cases, is associated to PNP.
Many are in the closet or just think they are in a closet and their family already knows but they prefer not to talk about it.
I came out in my early 30s at a time when guys that age already had children. Many of the young men I dated in order to gain social acceptability lured women into marriage and later divorced them... I never believed in using people that way to be justified by any cause. I simply didn't talk about my private life until I was in a situation where it was safe to do it from a personal and financial perspective.
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