marylander1940

I don't think so and it might raise alarms about lifestyle etc. Most folks go to their free clinic (Whitman Walker in DC).

Considering how many people in our community end up committing suicide I wouldn't make a joke about it. Besides some folks out there are truly suffering because of the changes to their lifestyle, finances, etc.

You're absolutely right, let's have a big orgy with everybody including cousins. It already happens in the most God fearing parts of the country, let's just make it normal.

Exactly! That's why they hire masseurs with "extras" and God forbid a masseur refuses to HE... they'll scream bloody murderer!

Agreed. I was mostly talking about married young (er) gay men still attracted to the other. Guys who go on grindr.

At least they can safely play with each other instead than with everybody else in the gayborhood. i know guys who simply click married on Grindr and all of the sudden got luckier than ever before.

If you think you might not have a job in the future (or it would take time for your 401K to recover) explain it to him and only hire him once things are back to normal. You and your financial stability must come first, he'll understand hopefully. Even if you can't afford hiring him this year you'll be able to do it after you financially recover! Some of you guys on here are confusing lending money to a friend with prepaying an escort or giving him a booking fee. I've always told all my friends to ask money from a relative.