Yes but it comes to a point when reality sets in. Besides having a kept boy/man or sugar baby is also a symbol of status.
Just like folks yelling sexual discrimination because being minority and exclusively hiring (dating if possible) Nordic/Abercrombie & Fitch kind of guys!
Got it but porno is fantasy.
@robear
I do remember "The Sopranos" also turning James Gandolfini into a sex symbol and the "average man" relating to him because of similar reasons.
Good point!
Fame also matters... and money matters later in life and nowadays there are guys you have it all: money, looks, instagram, influencers, etc.