I'm surprised as of now we still don't have someone posting: "I'm a top only, I don't bottom".
Just like thread's about rimming and guys posting how much they dislike the thought of rimming or should I say "rimming-shaming" others.
Just my impression!
Maybe it's not for you to take a big cock or if you do it might be painful...
You can always try opening up with dildos, a butt plug, etc.
Agreed!
Gentlemen usually allow others to sit on them.