First of all, thank you for posting you seem to be an honest guy!
Move on. You gave him way to many chances already.
no way for us to point any red flags but some providers unfortunately act like this constantly because their perceived abundance of clients, their own priorities, PNP lifestyle or just because they CAN get away with it. Certainly plenty of fish out there!
As pointed by others you must review him!
I hate to say coulda woulda shoulda but why did you book a fancy hotel and restaurant to meet someone for the first time?
Why not just going to his place or have him come to yours?
Does he live in your own town?
Do you have a limited number of providers and therefore you still want to meet him because he's one of your few choices?
Take a look at this thread, you're not alone hoping someone who constantly behaves like that will change just for you. Ryan Rose didn't show up to 3 consecutive meetings with a frequent poster.
Here's an example of a doormat mentality by some that encourages others to act like that.
Ryan Rose ? is escorting again... | M4M Message Forum (m4m-forum.org)