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Yes. Peter Hung, @peterhung85, is indeed one of the very best escorts. Ever! TruHart1

To fall in love can be a conscious choice but more often love only develops out of attraction and getting to know someone, sometimes in the Biblical sense, but more often in finding someone you relate to on more levels than just the physical. In hiring an escort, a client wants to experience sexual satisfaction with someone because they are attracted to the face or body of the escort. They may find that their attraction increases to something more than lust once they meet the escort and get to know more about them. All the best escorts seem to understand how to become friends (with paid benefits!) but also know just how far to go without causing a client to fall in love. My personal belief is that if a provider realizes that a client may be getting emotionally dependent on them for more than sex, the client must be told in no uncertain terms that "love" is not on the table. Are there exceptions? Yes, but they are very rare and, in most cases, the client will find that the escort does not reciprocate their feelings of "love." TruHart1 .

Parents, remember to teach your children well! TruHart1

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Just signed onto Boytoy and got this message: "We are down for maintenance. We will be up soon." Hmmmm...a trend?!! TruHart1

Hey @LoganClark, I love your explanation of BFE above and your depiction is a turn-on and brings to mind some of the best sessions I've ever experienced with a number of very gifted and completely dedicated professionals! It sounds as if you know exactly what you are doing! Let me just say, I'm impressed! :) TruHart1

That... If one knows anything about Andrew Justice, it is that he is sometimes in relationships...and sometimes is not. What he's doing these days is pretty "free-wheeling" but nothing to do with porn or escorting! TruHart1

_____Nyle writes, "Bathing in the desert" From his IG again: Joshua Tree, California. _______________ TruHart1

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No, he is still retired and has moved on with his life. I miss him too. He was among the best I've been lucky enough to experience on a regular basis while he was escorting and I certainly have memories of our great times together that I will always cherish! I certainly wish him the best, whatever he may be doing these days. TruHart1

Though my previous post was meant to be somewhat tongue in cheek, I do agree that sexuality in European countries (especially eastern Europe) seems more fluid than in the US. The American cultural idea that being gay or participating in gay sex is viewed as wrong in most Catholic and Protestant environments, and thus requires non-gay sex workers who choose G4P to make their living to overcome the social stigma attached to all acts between same sex partners that is drilled into males as negative in the US from the cradle on! Being a male escort who pleasures gay men in the US is even more difficult, whether they be gay or G4P, because it is illegal in nearly the entire country! TruHart1

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Oh my. This is going to come as quite a shock to the myriad male escorts who not only identify as "gay" but list their sexual preference in their escort ads as "gay." I mean, do those "gay" escorts realize that the truth is most of them are actually straight? o_Oo_O:eek: Not bi, STRAIGHT! All that worry over coming out in their lives and they never had to go through the agonizing process after all, since most of them are straight!!! :confused: TruHart1

I do agree with you on this, @BnaC. I should have written, "Yes, until that point in their life IF or when they become comfortable enough with themselves to come out as bi or gay (which might never happen!)" TruHart1

________Nyle writes, "remote and wild" From his IG: Joshua Tree, California. TruHart1

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Yes, until that point in their life when they become comfortable enough with themselves to come out as bi or gay! ;) If they are hot, hunky and identify as straight, far be it from me to question their "true" sexuality while they are giving me the f*ck of my life or getting off with my mouth full of their c*ck! Just lay back and enjoy yourself if you are experiencing a hot sexual encounter with a "straight" guy. That's what I've always found myself doing and I've loved the time I have spent with straight or bi guys! TruHart1

So true, and I know Alec had many relationships before Ryan, so he may indeed have found someone else! Heaven knows there are many, many men who could fall in love with Alec quite easily! A tremendously hot, sexy man who is a complete romantic...what's not to fall in love with? TruHart1

Years ago I had friends who lived in Somerset, IA, close to Simpson and I got to attend a number of fine operatic performances at Des Moines Metro Opera!!! TruHart1

The relationship appears to continue in a festive holiday mood! Russell writes: Oh Christmas tree. TruHart1

Derek told me himself that he simply loves all aspects of sex, whether with a woman or a man or in any and all combinations! Does one call that "bisexual or omnisexual?" TruHart1

Alec's (and Ryan's) entire reason for escorting was to raise enough capital to retire and start their own business. One of Alec's favorite topics whenever I was lucky enough to meet with him was how he planned to propose to Ryan in the most romantic way possible, so I do wonder if his "boyfriend of the last 18 months" is a different man than Ryan. It doesn't really matter to me though, because Alec is truly one of the best escorts and the very definition of a NICE guy in every way, so I only wish him the most happiness in his life, whoever he loves at this time in his life. He is deserving of all happiness! TruHart1

Sorry for the OT side trip into Broadway territory. Since Herr Kaufmann is involved at this very moment in a new production of Otello, from 11/23 to 12/15/2018 at the Bavarian State Opera, (Bayerische Staatsoper) here is a comparison for you: From the MET telecast of Domingo's first time singing Otello at the MET in 1979: From the Covent Garden production of Otello last year, Herr Kaufmann's very first production singing the Moor of Venice: To me, both amazing singers, at the top of their respective careers! TruHart1

It's ironic that you bring up Patinkin's Sancho Panza, @bostonman. He attended college at the University of Kansas (my Alma Mater) his freshman and sophomore years, (when I was a sophomore and junior there) before moving on to the Julliard School, with a national (non-musical) commercial for 7-Up in between (The "Uncola!") His freshman year he was cast in a production of Man of La Mancha as, yes, Sancho Panza! I was going through a phase of being completely bored with my disastrous major of Civil Engineering so I decided to "audit" theater classes and wander into rehearsals for whatever school productions were being mounted at the time. Wandering into a rehearsal of La Mancha with Mandy was an experience I will never forget. To say I was impressed with him is an understatement! Both the Aldonza and her understudy were fantastic too, not to mention the Don Quixote, a senior faculty member who later became my voice teacher when I switched my major to Music Education. Anyway, I was quite impressed with Patinkin's interpretation and thought at the time he had an impressive high tenor voice. Then, in his sophomore year Patinkin was cast as Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof. I was truly amazed that this high voiced, somewhat silly interpreter of Sancho suddenly transformed into the ultimate, almost bass-voiced father of three girls who talked to God. None of his technique at the time seemed in any way forced, for either role. My first introduction to the versatility of Mandy at which he was so amazing! Later on, when he created the role of Che Guevara in the first Broadway production of Evita in 1979, all of his vocal promise came to fruition and I realize I was lucky enough to have seen and heard him when he was just starting out. I know many people dislike his crooning technique in concert at times and we've all heard about how abrasive he was to work with on Criminal Minds, yet there's no doubt to me that he is a Broadway legend! Finally, to Streisand, another legend who many hated working with, I will be forever grateful for somehow turning the nebbish, dumpy Mandy I was familiar with in college, into the total HUNK he became in Yentl!!! http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5qVnFeC8Vo4/T9bV1Mn9t-I/AAAAAAAAX3I/GZsQPdWPzAc/s1600/yentl_mandypatinkin03.jpg TruHart1

But,,,but, he doesn't even list kissing in his "I am into" section. I thought that was a requirement for you Gman! TruHart1