Too many red flags? Interesting.
Let me clear a few things up.
I’m an architect, I run a podcast, I’m working on an album and have a life, that’s first. This isn’t something I do regularly. Every couple of months, I’ll open my phone for a few days, go through messages, screen people, and meet selectively. That usually means 3 to 4 days of availability every 60 to 90 days.
I’m very busy, and this has always been a side thing. It’s also something I’ll likely step away from soon. It started from a genuine appreciation for connection and intimacy, not money.
I screen because I’m selective. If there’s no attraction or alignment, I don’t meet. That’s why I ask for a face picture upfront.
Also, I use a messaging app, so sometimes messages don’t come through. If you think I missed yours, you can DM me your number and I’ll check.
Now, since we’re talking about “red flags,” here’s how I see it:
Someone who is always instantly available
Someone who prioritizes money over people
Someone who will meet anyone, anytime
That’s not me.
I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs, and I live a relatively quiet life while running multiple businesses. I’m selective because I can be.
The reason I have 200+ five-star reviews isn’t just physical. It’s because of who I am as a person. In fact, most people don’t meet for physical stuff . Many just enjoy the conversation, connection, dinner etc’
So instead of jumping to assumptions, understand that platforms like this have hundreds of thousands of users. I receive a high volume of messages and choose a very small number of people to meet.
If you’re genuinely interested, you can DM me like everyone else.
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