big-n-tall

I think the consensus is that PNP means meth usage.
However, I know a few escorts who thought it meant drug usage in general... marijuana included. When I explained to them what people generally say pnp was, they dropped pnp from their ad. I don't think everyone who has pnp in their ad knows exactly what it means. I couldn't broach to tell you how many do or don't know. That's a conversation you need to have with a potential hire.

They retire for various reasons.
Of the ones I have known/know who have, they retired because...
- they found love/a sugar daddy/etc.
- only did it for quick cash or make enough to put themselves through school.
- even though they love what they do they get worn out and want to do something else
- some just abruptly quit cold turkey and drop off the face of the earth
- some just feel it's time to retire.
The work span for each individual provider/masseur is up to that particular person. There is no set time frame.
Some retired providers/masseurs do see at least some of their regulars. While others, once retired, they will cut all their regulars off and move on to the next phase of their life/career. In my experience, I am in contact with a number of retired/semi-retired mostly providers and one masseur. My interactions with these guys varies. Some I've formed friendships with and talk to them on and off each year. Some I even go on trips together. Others I still get to hire on occasion.
The best you can hope for is that you meet a great provider/masseur and you get to see him regularly for more than a couple years. If more comes out if it... that's a huge bonus.
 
 

There was an actual review (Daddy’s Reviews) site affiliated to this forum that many of the providers who have participated on this forum long term have a plethora of reviews. I think the old review site can still be accessed.
The current owners of this site have been working on a successor to that site.
People don’t know or seem to forget detailed reviews on the forum were pretty much forbidden. Then when Daddy died and the review site became derelict the new owners allowed for a little bit more detail… at least until the new review site is fully functional.
To be fair, popular providers are sometimes reviewed negatively on this site. I have been on this site long enough to read the blow ups associated with those reviews. Some of them were a fair assessment of the experience that some took issue with because they didn’t have the same experience. Some of them were attacks by the reviewer because the experience didn’t go as planned, not necessarily because of fault by the provider. And yet still reviewers have come on this site attacking a provider they never met. There are even instances of providers signing on just to attack or dispute a review.. never to be heard from again. All of which still happens now but to a lesser degree.
I don’t think this site is in cahoots with providers to protect a particular provider. The number of providers who participated is far smaller than it was in the past sadly because the forums don’t always benefit them. Many left or rarely participate because of the vitriol some spew on this forum. Even the popular ones who remain active have had negative feedback/comments/discussions about them publicly and privately. No slight against the OP but you just haven’t been around long enough to see/know the history of the site and all that entails.

In my experience, longer sessions and how much focus on the client depends a lot on the individual provider.
The guy I hire the most is also the guy I have been on the longest extended sessions with (8 days). We have a lot of common interests so other than time he needs to work out, he’s with me constantly. I don’t care if he uses his cell. I think it’s unrealistic to ask him to not use it for that extended amount of time. He is rarely on it long, if he needs to call or check his phone.
Another guy I have seen just focuses entirely on me for a weekend. I have never asked him to not use his cell, but I have never seen him even touch it the entire time we were together. He also never requested alone time. This is during weekends together.
Yet another guy had a business outside of escorting and needed alone phone time occasionally to handle whatever came about with his other business. He asked me in advance and I said it was fine so long as it wasn’t a constant hindrance to our time together.
Ultimately it comes down to communication between the client and provider. It needs to be discussed beforehand if alone time or phone time is needed when you are together for a overnight or longer.
If you’re together for more than overnight I think it’s expected both client and provider may need some time to themselves to do whatever. However again with some providers, with me, it hasn’t always been the case.