JungleForest

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Because I was started developing feelings for him. Yes, I know, classic. I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him. Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it.

Do you think you had different expectations from what actually happened? And you lost whatever momentum you had? Can you explain a little more what happened? Orgasming isn’t everything but I can get why that’s something you would want.

I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up.

I appreciate having a provider’s perspective, as well as everyone else’s perspective here. I decided to be upfront and just outright say it and he basically asked me to raincheck our meeting. It was a bummer for sure. I ended up scheduling time with someone else though and that ended up being great.

…and you hired a provider? I don’t want to bail but at the same time I wanted to get rearranged. I’m just worried about the provider being annoyed, idk how to proceed. Would love some friendly advice, as I’m new to not only gay sex but hiring providers, please keep that in mind when responding.

Forgive my ignorance, but I booked an erotic massage (truly an escort session with massage) with a masseur but his profile doesn't show nudes. I asked if I could see some because we talked about adding extra elements to the erotic massage but he said that he doesn't send those. I purely want to see what he is working with especially because of the nature of our conversation - is this unreasonable? Open to being educated. I just figured that because talked about his piece I would get to see it before the appointment to decide if it is what I'm looking for - this is the first time I have encountered this issue. Now I am not sure if I am being swindled, especially when he's charging $400.