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I am very fond of my favorite provider, Jack, who I have seeing monthly for nearly a year. He is incredibly hot, the sex is fantastic, he is easy to talk with, and always makes me feel comfortable in his presence. When I hired him, his ad said he was straight. That is not why I hired him. In fact, he is the only provider I have ever hired who listed himself as straight. When I have been eating his ass, Jack will ask me “do you like that straight guy’s ass.?” When I have asked him to jerk off for me, I have encouraged him to watch’s straight porn if wants, and he has done so on a couple of occasions. A few weeks ago, I was surprised to see a post from him in my Instagram feed. I don’t know how or when I started following him, but I follow a lot of hot guys, including models, influencers, OF performers and local providers, many of whom seem to follow each other. We have about 20-25 IG friends in common, so I assume I started following him based on an IG suggestion. in looking at his profile, I think he might be gay. There are almost no pictures of him with women, there are plenty of pics with him with hot men, and he is often hanging out with a crowd of some of LA’s hottest 30something gay guys. One of his few female followers tagged him in a photo, describing him as her “gay BFF.” It is so confusing because I usually have exceptional gaydar, and there is nothing about that sets off my radar. I’m am not sure what to make of this. I admit that the thought that he is straight is kind of a turn on, and I think I feel so comfortable with him in part because I feel a straight guy is less likely to be judgmental about my age, weight, or dick size. But I also really enjoy him as person and don’t want him have to play a role as straight if he really is not. My biggest turn on is servicing and pleasing another guy and making him cum, so I prefer to know what really turns him on. Should I tell him I’ve seen his IG and ask him if he is gay?

I became a regular to a provider, and he even gave me his personal cell number and told me I did not need to use his escort number. Our text exchanges are usually brief and businesslike, but a couple months ago he turned it into sexting, telling me how much he enjoyed fucking me, and instructing me to jerk off and tell him about it. We have had a couple great sessions since then, and after our last session if he could send me a pic to jerk off to. (I ordinarily would not have done that, but given the sexting he initiated previously, it seemed cool.) He never replied and his texts have been terse and he has been slow to respond ever since.

Great advice

I have done that, too.