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Thanks so much!

You have a way with words but I think I understand what you're saying! Lol. Thank you.

This is also excellent advice! Thank you!

Thank you for this information!

Thanks so much for giving me excellent advice. I haven't gone on prep because I am not a big fan of anal. Do you know if people go on prep if they do just oral?

Great points. I am disease free after a recent checkup. And you're right there's risk whether it's a provider or a casual hookup.

Good question. I have never been big on anal (giving or receiving) so more oral and frot is what I am comfortable with.

Excellent advice. Thank you!

I want to try my first experience with a provider after nearly 21 years but I am fearful of catching something. How do you guys reconcile this when hiring a provider? I know many are on prep but what about the other diseases that prep doesn't protect you from? Is it as simple as meeting up and keeping your fingers crossed that you won't get anything? I want to get back out there but again I have some reservations. Any advice would be helpful.

Exactly. But as a provider he is being paid for his services.

I worry about that. You find a provider and after a few times they take you for granted and stop putting in the effort. What can you do but start all over again! Smh..

Should I pay the provider before or after the service and when should this be discussed? I would imagine as soon as you meet the provider, he is going to want payment before the session begins but there is a risk if compensation is given beforehand right?

You must be something else. A guy decides to cancel his trip and replace it with an evening with you as a Christmas present. That's impressive!

Don't do it. You will never see him or that deposit again.

Thank you for sharing this information!

This was absolutely great. I appreciate your sharing your experiences. I think reading all the responses I realize I need to be the captain of my own ship and find what I am looking for! Thanks so much again!

I know that's right. That was excellent advice!

Those are great points as well. I think I need to really ask myself what I am looking for. You're right, one size doesn't fit all and maybe the providers I am picking are not the right ones for me.

You make very good points. I think it might be me. Maybe I am expecting more out of these encounters or maybe I need to screen them more carefully.

I have not hired a provider in years and I am strongly considering hiring one again soon. But then I remembered when I hired them in the past, the experiences weren't great. I left feeling like I have just been taken advantage of. Maybe it's just me or maybe we are getting the bare minimum from these providers. We pay so much to hire them and often get back so little or are scammed. I have to ask myself and you all is it really worth it? What do you guys think?

Thank you so much. You have made many great points and gave me a perspective I never considered. Reviews are not an exact science and I think I will need to rely on "trail and error." I am meeting a provider on Saturday and everyone who has met him have reviewed him favorably. I will keep my fingers crossed! Lol. Thanks again!

I am so glad you had a pleasant experience.

Wow I can't believe a provider would still from you but I guess it's not surprising. I meet my first provider from Rentmen on Saturday and I am nervous! Lol

That makes sense as well. Clients pay a lot of money for a great experience and it is a bad feeling when a provider doesn't live up to the "hype."

Thank you for that great response. I didn't realize how difficult it is to leave a review that's less than 5 stars! It makes you wonder how many of these escorts really provide a great service!