Reggyreg56

That's a red flag. Too much wiggle room to decline certain services the client may want done. I would stay away.

Thank you so much for your input. It's appreciated

That was one of the best asses I have ever seen!

Yes that was a typo. My apologies.

I understand this message a little better. Lol. Thank you!

Ok umm..I didn't understand all of that but thanks..lol

I really appreciate your time and effort in this matter. You have given me a lot to think about. I am hesitant to take Doxyprep for several reasons including a pre existing condition I have and the fact that I am not very sexually active which makes me wonder if taking the medication will be most effective like you said. I will talk to my primary care doctor about it. Thanks so much!

Great advice. Thanks again!

Thanks so much!

You have a way with words but I think I understand what you're saying! Lol. Thank you.

This is also excellent advice! Thank you!

Thank you for this information!

Thanks so much for giving me excellent advice. I haven't gone on prep because I am not a big fan of anal. Do you know if people go on prep if they do just oral?

Great points. I am disease free after a recent checkup. And you're right there's risk whether it's a provider or a casual hookup.

Good question. I have never been big on anal (giving or receiving) so more oral and frot is what I am comfortable with.

Excellent advice. Thank you!

I want to try my first experience with a provider after nearly 21 years but I am fearful of catching something. How do you guys reconcile this when hiring a provider? I know many are on prep but what about the other diseases that prep doesn't protect you from? Is it as simple as meeting up and keeping your fingers crossed that you won't get anything? I want to get back out there but again I have some reservations. Any advice would be helpful.

Exactly. But as a provider he is being paid for his services.

I worry about that. You find a provider and after a few times they take you for granted and stop putting in the effort. What can you do but start all over again! Smh..

Should I pay the provider before or after the service and when should this be discussed? I would imagine as soon as you meet the provider, he is going to want payment before the session begins but there is a risk if compensation is given beforehand right?

You must be something else. A guy decides to cancel his trip and replace it with an evening with you as a Christmas present. That's impressive!

Don't do it. You will never see him or that deposit again.

Thank you for sharing this information!

This was absolutely great. I appreciate your sharing your experiences. I think reading all the responses I realize I need to be the captain of my own ship and find what I am looking for! Thanks so much again!

I know that's right. That was excellent advice!